it's so odd that there are literally thousands of men suffering from something, and each thinks he is the only one... how can this be?  maybe it's part of the essence of addiction/disease, that even though we are all in the same boat, the disease repels everyone else who has it.  And so the first step of going to this website is, as Alex says, the turning point.  Kol HaKavod, keep on trucking.

(keep on trucking no matter what and never look back ever ever ever?)

I hear you loud and clear.Keep on thinking about your g-d,even in middle of your breathless lusting.bring him in right in middle of it.I say: hashem whatever it is that I am looking for in that woman or picture or that fantasy vision let me find in you.What that means to me is that when I see a trigger I have very strong feelings or a strong interest in investigating what it is all about.So I am praying that let me have these strong feelings towards you,such a lusting relationship with my g-d.It works for me for today.Hatzlochah Rabah.