Days 96 & 97: Just checking in here. Googled something innocuous and without bad intenti
ons but something came up and I took a look. Luckily caught myself quickly. I had a pretty str
ong reacti
on though. Objectively speaking it wasn't even a very sexual image, but as some of the l
onger streakers know, if you've been a while without looking, you can have an especially str
ong reacti
on, even to "minor" triggers. Especially when you let yourself look and are "lusting". Anyways, BH, didn't go further than that. But it definitely was like wow, OK, haven't had
one of those moments in a while. H
onestly, it's very tempting in those moments to take that str
ong reacti
on I'm feeling and let myself try and pretend I'm getting swept away. It's tempting to start thinking about the reacti
on and saying, wow, see how powerful this is, there is no way this is going away, no way you can fight this feeling etc. But it's actually BS. It's just that if I
keep holding
on to the experience,
keep dwelling
on it etc, then ya, I may make it impossible for myself to resist. But if instead, I d
on't pretend to "Fight" the thought, which is actually a really clever way for me to actually give in, I just let it go, I'm OK, BH.
I think sometimes in the past my ego got in the way of me letting go after a slip or if I was exposed to something triggering. I thought, oh look what I did, I'm not perfect etc. To somehow try and fix the fact that I screwed up I would try and fight what had happened reject it, etc. Really that was a recipe for failing.
Anyways, not sure what I'm saying really. Just rambling if I'm h
onest. But, BH, I haven't even had a tough moment such as t
onight. I sort of hesitate to even call it a tough moment, cause it's triggering. But whatever. Basically Hashem has been making it sort of easy for me maybe. So I guess I am grateful that up until now it's been relatively smooth with triggers even if life itself was difficult. It's funny, winning the battle here is like winning an argument.
Only way to do that is by not actually arguing
I w
onder if me not having my medicati
on today played a role in making me more vulnerable. Hmm... not sure. Just a thought.
Ok, sorry for the lengthy analysis, have an awesome week and
keep on trucking! Gut voch and Shavua tov!