Halevi don't say anything sing a little ...from your cousin HumanBeing Hakohen

lol I love you, HB. I've got something to say this time though.

They've hired a new girl at work and she's attractive. She has one of those cute English accents too and of course she's wearing revealing clothing. This is not good.

Of course I try to look away and not engage her in conversation, but it's not the best of situations.

Know the feeling, bro - but even talking it out here means that you're facing the issue. Be polite, professional, but not friendly.

I feel for you and your struggle....What it really it means, is that Hashem trusts you to overcome this new test...You will be successful in passing it.

Thanks guys. Your support means a lot to me.

I'm not at work today as I only work p/t 3 days a week so B"H no problem today.

Keep on trucking!! 

halevi,
i struggle with the same problem in my work, you can see in my thread, the same words as you.

this is not easy test at all,
but you can do as me,
if you don't work on the same project as her, just try to ignore her existence.
nothing! even not a glimpse,
it could be very danger and could triggers you.  (two months ago, i had a big fall  because of her, and we must learn from that)

you can imagine the bodyguards pair silentbattle and me, stand next to you on your right and left guard your eyes and thoughts everytime you walk or draw near her , the imagination of us as your bodyguards will take your head down at the same time you smile to yourself.  ;D

just think how happy we would be when you tell us your every little victory.  8)

trust you gever.

keep on tell us.

Thanks for the advice. I'll be sure to keep it in mind 

We're all here for you - keep on rocking!

Halevi!!! How you be?? seems like your doing alright. Alrighty then just stoppin by to say Good shabbos!

Halevi, you holy warrior you,

You're gonna get there one day. You're gonna feel BLESSED INDIFFERENCE to the pretty ones around you. Just keep going the way you're going. And think 'bout joining DC's group Call in a couple of weeks. It can lead you to freedom from this lust-pull. Really.

Stay strong, my brother, stay strong...

Good Shabbos.

Hey Steve, I already feel like I've changed tremendously and there's a lot more indifference than there used to be - but I can't afford to be complacent and it does pose a new challenge.

Hope everyone is having a good shabbos.

Good shabbos?? Isnt it a good week?!?   :D :D :D

imtrying25 wrote on 06 Feb 2010 21:03:

Well, yeah, but my timezone is a little different to yours. At the time I posted I think it would have still been shabbos for you guys.

Shabbos was good, looking forward to a great week!