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Re: 90 day log! 10 Jan 2022 01:23 #375740

day 34

going through a bit right now.
masturbation was always my go-to stress-reliever.
but now, when everything is confusing, at least i know i have control over this. i can decide to control myself.

i made a new short term goal for myself - 45 days (half 90).

Re: 90 day log! 10 Jan 2022 08:51 #375745

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You got this! 11 days out! cant wait!
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.

Re: 90 day log! 10 Jan 2022 12:00 #375749

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TheYoungerTwin wrote on 10 Jan 2022 01:23:
day 34

going through a bit right now.
masturbation was always my go-to stress-reliever.


Exercise is a great replacement. Masturbation causes the brain to secrete calming agents - endorphines - into the brain. When one exercises to the point that one's heart rate is raised, the same endorphines are released. Fact is, we need stress relief. Take care of yourself buddy; just do it in a kosher healthy way.  In addition, if you exercise regularly (not just when feeling stressed), it keeps one in a generally healthy state of mind and does not allow stress to build up.
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Re: 90 day log! 10 Jan 2022 19:25 #375769

today marks 5 weeks.

is this real? is this possible?

Re: 90 day log! 10 Jan 2022 19:44 #375771

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TheYoungerTwin wrote on 10 Jan 2022 19:25:
today marks 5 weeks.

is this real? is this possible?

This reflects the real YOU... 
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
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Re: 90 day log! 10 Jan 2022 19:51 #375772

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TheYoungerTwin wrote on 10 Jan 2022 19:25:
today marks 5 weeks.

is this real? is this possible?

Keep surprising yourself!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: 90 day log! 10 Jan 2022 21:45 #375773

Zedj wrote on 10 Jan 2022 19:51:

TheYoungerTwin wrote on 10 Jan 2022 19:25:
today marks 5 weeks.

is this real? is this possible?

Keep surprising yourself!

Amen!

Re: 90 day log! 11 Jan 2022 20:20 #375793

day 36

slipped just now but stopped myself

Re: 90 day log! 11 Jan 2022 22:12 #375796

gegvaldig!!!

Re: 90 day log! 12 Jan 2022 00:01 #375798

was having urges this afternoon and i forced myself to do exercise instead of continuing those thoughts.
it was pretty rough - i felt like giving up.
Thank G-d i didn’t. I wouldn’t stand a chance without the support of gye. Just knowing that people have been following my progress helps so much. Thanks guys.

Re: 90 day log! 12 Jan 2022 02:16 #375803

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HERO!!!!!!!
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Re: 90 day log! 12 Jan 2022 18:06 #375834

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Keep it up brother! Remember we are all following your progress! Its amazing!
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.

Re: 90 day log! 12 Jan 2022 19:30 #375837

day 37, feeling good.

37 just feels like an in-between number but every day counts.

Re: 90 day log! 12 Jan 2022 22:37 #375847

37 sounds like a HUGE number! The daily tracker gives us a tangible way to track our growth, but the significance of the work you are doing cannot be adequately captured by a number. Without a doubt you are a different person than you were 37 days ago. Keep it up!

Re: 90 day log! 13 Jan 2022 03:12 #375858

committed_togrowth wrote on 12 Jan 2022 22:37:
37 sounds like a HUGE number! The daily tracker gives us a tangible way to track our growth, but the significance of the work you are doing cannot be adequately captured by a number. Without a doubt you are a different person than you were 37 days ago. Keep it up!

thank you.
it really is important to remind ourselves how significant it is. any work thats put in is an accomplishment.
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