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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Re: This is it - 90 Days here I come! 25 Nov 2009 22:34 #30590

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	Happy for you NOYA. ANd enjoy the thanksgiving weekend. And all that turkey. Hatzlacha.
	Last Edit: by SGBK.

Bump 29 Nov 2009 05:50 #30971

yona18 Current streak: 4500 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 364	I had an unexpected failure while at home. It was a stupid mistake, and now it's time to start again from Day 1. Oh well...
	Last Edit: by Danny87.

Re: Bump 29 Nov 2009 06:07 #30978

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	NOYA wrote on 29 Nov 2009 05:50: I had an unexpected failure while at home. It was a stupid mistake, and now it's time to start again from Day 1. Oh well... No one ever got to 90 days (and beyond) without starting from Day 1, and taking it one day at a time. Hatzlacha!
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: by Heiligeletz.

Re: This is it - 90 Days here I come! 29 Nov 2009 08:28 #31015

Struggla21 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	You and me both buddy.
	Last Edit: by cajeheb.balemid@labworld.org.

Day 2 01 Dec 2009 04:49 #31386

yona18
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Okay,

I feel great right now. Amazing. I had a fantastic night seder despite my chevrusa bailing on me, and I feel like I "made it up to G-d" for my fall over the weekend. The Gra brings down that the best way to be mesaken this aveira is to learn Torah because that helps replace the tumah you've brought in with kedusha.

But whatever. I'm at Day 2, starting slow, bombarded by all sorts of nasty hirhurim that I brought on over my mess up, but I know that I'll be in much better shape tomorrow, once I'm back on the chart, and back to being a Level Something.

It's good to be back!

Last Edit: by planner4.

Day 6 03 Dec 2009 23:39 #32084

yona18 Current streak: 4500 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 364	Feeling the beginnings of horniness starting up in my body. I hope distracting myself will work. Today is Day 6 and doing well so far. Have a good Shabbos!
	Last Edit: by Anael_Silversteim.

Re: This is it - 90 Days here I come! 03 Dec 2009 23:43 #32085

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	*DONT GIVE IN NOYA DONT GIVE IN!!!! TRY AND KEEP YOURSELF BUSY WITH SOMETHING!*
	Last Edit: by machnam.

Re: This is it - 90 Days here I come! 04 Dec 2009 00:49 #32092

towalkwithHim	Noya I hope that you were able to stay strong and say No.. Thank you for asking for help and support. COMMIT to say a strong No and get busy. I am marching there with you I know that we can make it.
	Last Edit: by erliche yew.

Re: This is it - 90 Days here I come! 04 Dec 2009 06:33 #32139

Struggla21 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	I know you can do it dude. Kick some tuchas!! (Is that okay to say here??)
	Last Edit: by Normaldude .

Re: This is it - 90 Days here I come! 05 Dec 2009 20:23 #32419

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 12	struggla21 wrote on 04 Dec 2009 06:33: I know you can do it dude. Kick some tuchas!! (Is that okay to say here??) Not sure. We'd better ask Rage his opinion
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: by mengreen.

Re: This is it - 90 Days here I come! 05 Dec 2009 21:39 #32431

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	Hey NOYA wassup. How was shabbos?? Thinking about you. Im not sure if you read my thread recently but i fell too. Im holding on day five. But im trying not to count the days this time. Just keeping myself busy with good stuff.
	Last Edit: by Riva.

Re: This is it - 90 Days here I come! 08 Dec 2009 15:25 #33207

yona18
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My holy friends, thank you so much for all the encouragement. I fell pretty badly again, but now it's out of my system for a while...hopefully.

I'm very excited that Chanukkah is coming. I believe very strongly in the power of Chanukkah for people to accomplish incredible things, and indeed, I had my longest ever streak two years ago starting with Chanukkah (48 days!). I'm ready to really give this one my all, with no BS and no weak effort. I want to make it, I really do. And this time, BE"H, I WILL DO IT.

So time to take my first step and take on the first day. So far so good!

Last Edit: by friday.

Re: This is it - 90 Days here I come! 08 Dec 2009 17:02 #33244

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	Keep it going Noya. Hope to meet you there in the end. Try and think of reasons why you fell in the past and what you can do to prevent them. Keep on truckin.
	Last Edit: by joshtree23.

Re: This is it - 90 Days here I come! 08 Dec 2009 19:59 #33295

the.guard Current streak: 697 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6436 Karma: 137	NOYA wrote on 08 Dec 2009 15:25: I fell pretty badly again, but now it's out of my system for a while...hopefully. Please see the Daily Dose of Dov in Chizuk e-mail #625 on this page.(scroll down)... Starting from the words "They also needed to stop doing what is not working for them."
	Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest. Last Edit: by smile22.

Re: This is it - 90 Days here I come! 09 Dec 2009 18:23 #33560

Struggla21 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	613 ropes that keep us tied to Hashem. If we break one and do Tshuvah, we can re-tie the broken rope, which gets us closer to Hashem Heard this from a Rebne I learn with. Thought it might help you, it helped me.
	Last Edit: by weneedmoshiachnow.