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Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 12:33 #42769

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 12	IT, youve been hanging out in my office, filling the corners, but not telling me what you really came for?? Moms are bright, but not mind readers son! The purpose of that thread is to have written "mom; having a downer, could you stop by when you get a minute?" Hope everything is better today. Does Uri leaving have something to do with the down?
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: by energeticelephant06.

Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 12:43 #42780

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7Up wrote on 06 Jan 2010 12:33:

IT, youve been hanging out in my office, filling the corners, but not telling me what you really came for??
Moms are bright, but not mind readers son!
The purpose of that thread is to have written
"mom; having a downer, could you stop by when you get a minute?"

Hope everything is better today.
Does Uri leaving have something to do with the down?

Moms may not be mindreaders but they are supposed to be HEARTreaders, no??

And yes today is much better.

And maybe it does have a little to do with Uri. We were really holding eachother. Alot!

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Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 12:53 #42788

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 12	I know you were. You two really bonded the past few weeks, didnt you? BH for phones and email and skype. I know its not the same as an impromptu Sams Bagel. But for his sake, lets both try move forward
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: by gleefulrabbit22.

Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 12:55 #42789

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	7Up wrote on 06 Jan 2010 12:53: I know you were. You two really bonded the past few weeks, didnt you? BH for phones and email and skype. I know its not the same as an impromptu Sams Bagel. But for his sake, lets both try move forward And definitly not the same as a bar burger brunch!!
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Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 14:31 #42809

sci1977 Current streak: 438 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 895 Karma: 0	I am so glad you are having a better day. Remember to stay positive and we all are here to help!!! (That's the point of being here.) How is the plan going to tell or not tell your wife?
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Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 15:46 #42868

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	Hope your day is going well...we're all here for you, whether you're in the mood of it or not!
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Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 15:46 #42869

letakain OFFLINE Platinum Boarder KOTNMW Posts: 5036 Karma: 64	sorry i wasn't around yesterday. i wish you a FANTABULOUS DAY today! go chase the butterflies. or on the other hand, maybe just watch the butterflies from your rokin' chair!
	I am proud of myself today because of who I am becoming with progress, not perfection one day at a time I am a pickle, and I'll never be a cucumber again. and pickles are YUM! my thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/6-Women-on-the-way-to-90-Days/248941-Letakains-internet-addiction-journal Last Edit: by DeletedUser15670.

Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 16:27 #42903

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	Thanks all for checking in. So far my day is going really good. Lets hope it stays this way. :D
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Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 16:45 #42930

TrYiNg	;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Rock on!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 16:49 #42937

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	TrYiNg wrote on 06 Jan 2010 16:45: ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Rock on!!!!!!!!!!!! Hashem Tzuri...
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Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 19:53 #43037

Eye.nonymous OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2696 Karma: 15	imtrying25 wrote on 06 Jan 2010 16:27: Thanks all for checking in. So far my day is going really good. Lets hope it stays this way. :D That's great.
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Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 22:08 #43085

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	Thanks y'all for cheering me on!! Had a pretty good day. Nothing that would even count as a slip but not as good as i would want it to be. Vehamavin yavin!
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Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 22:21 #43089

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	You deserve all the cheering in the galaxy, IT25! So please tell me you are doing more for your recovery than only sharing what you've got with others. We both need to be doing some kind of slightly annoying recovery work on a regular basis, to stay useful and sober. Not just the 12th step! ....at least that's what my sponsor always yells at me, the jerk...... ;D
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same." Last Edit: by pleasedjellyfish78.

Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 22:35 #43092

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dov wrote on 06 Jan 2010 22:21:

You deserve all the cheering in the galaxy, IT25! So please tell me you are doing more for your recovery than only sharing what you've got with others. We both need to be doing some kind of slightly annoying recovery work on a regular basis, to stay useful and sober. Not just the 12th step!

....at least that's what my sponsor always yells at me, the jerk...... ;D

Rebbi your so right!! But i think this, which what you speak, is the real hard part. :-\ :-\

Please enlighten me Rebbi. I felt i need to put a slight distance between me and the actual acting out and then id be able to focus more on the recovery aspect. What do you think? What is my next step?? Please answer. I dont want to lose the little that i have!!

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Re: I'm Trying! 06 Jan 2010 22:48 #43107

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Keep dancing with your walker.

Keep encouraging others and trying to help.

Have a l'chayim.

Then consider going through the steps in a simple way.

If things are going well, I'd probably do nothing, as you must be doing something right! And you need not tell me nor anyone what ypu are choosing to do - it's completely private (until you bring someone in to help you).
But if you see that things are not so poshut and it seems to you that you need help to stay safe, work through the steps by all means, and find someone to help you do it.

See? Who needs to be pushy?

PS. If you don't take good care of yourself I'm going to lock you in a room with Rage, Henry Kissinger, and Obama and throw away the key!!!
(Just kidding....I'll keep the key.)

"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Last Edit: by resilienthawk63.