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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 18:49 #41916

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	Good luck with whatever you decide - I'm davening for your success and happiness, no matter what...
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I'm trying 04 Jan 2010 18:53 #41919

loi-misyaeish	I'm gonna try and daven for you that all should go well. Please keep in touch it25. Loi-m
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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 19:13 #41928

sci1977 Current streak: 438 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 895 Karma: 0	Were all praying for you!!! If I can help in any way let me know.
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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 19:14 #41929

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	I will . thanks for the offer.
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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 20:40 #41972

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 12	May Hashem send you the words which will penetrate her heart the right way and may He allow this to bring you both closer to each other.
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: by dreamyelephant42.

Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 21:48 #41990

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	7Up wrote on 04 Jan 2010 20:40: May Hashem send you the words which will penetrate her heart the right way and may He allow this to bring you both closer to each other. Amen!! Thanks Mom!!
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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 21:50 #41992

onelife
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hey,
have you thought about the second choice??
i mean wait. if you gonna hit the 90 in the current journey its gonna be the first step not! to tell her.
each day you stay clean after the 90 means you are healthy more and more on each day and less and less the need to tell her.
just because its history, isn't it?

what you have to do now?
you have to challenge your self to be clean from now forever ???
you have a goal - not to tell your wife!!
to justify that goal you must stay clean.

if has veshalom you fall tell her, you are still young. you shouldn't hurry.

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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 22:04 #42001

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OneLife wrote on 04 Jan 2010 21:50:

Ken ze hatzad hashenei sheli. Aval bemet ani rotzeh lagid lah acher shani magi'ah l'tishi'im. Havanta??

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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 22:11 #42008

onelife Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 247 Karma: 0	LOL!! :D :D i understood! this is another choice. then you tell her that in your far far history you were an addict... :D :D and today you are tsadick gadol!! :D :D lech al ze
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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 22:13 #42009

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	OneLife wrote on 04 Jan 2010 22:11: LOL!! :D :D i understood! this is another choice. then you tell her that in your far far history you were an addict... :D :D and today you are tsadick gadol!! :D :D lech al ze I dont think ill do that but i think it would be easier for her to accept and hear it then.
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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 22:17 #42011

onelife Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 247 Karma: 0	absolutely right! i didn't see you on the WOH' are you there? how many days you clean so far?
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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 22:18 #42015

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	OneLife wrote on 04 Jan 2010 22:17: absolutely right! i didn't see you on the WOH' are you there? how many days you clean so far? Im not counting. Its my new way of doing things. I feel when counting it puts to much pressure on me and it makes it so much harder. But i will say i have surpassed my previous best since iv joined the forum!!
	Last Edit: by gleefulkangaroo16.

Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 22:23 #42024

jerusalemsexaddict	Tell her im just a random dude who came into your house drunk and brought stickers.
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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 22:24 #42025

jerusalemsexaddict	p.s. all the above is true except for the me bringing the stickers.i gave them to it25 to bring.
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Re: I'm Trying! 04 Jan 2010 22:25 #42028

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	OneLife wrote on 04 Jan 2010 22:24: me too! the forum do his job properly. you have a big part in that not just for you but for us, ive already felt it. :-* bli ain hara on your clean days! Todah Rabba, gever. Gam ani ohaiv otchah!
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