silentbattle wrote on 31 Dec 2009 08:08:
Somehow, Habib, you don't seem like the fretting type. Unless you play guitar.
I think that for some of us, we do need to make changes in the way we live - some of us need major changes, others more minor, to make sure that we're really focusing on living life. And if we're involved in things that are stopping us from living, in some way, then I guess we'd need to address that, as well!
habaletaher wrote on 31 Dec 2009 08:26:
I hope that there are very few of us here that are clinically depressed which means that we are all going out and functioning (hopefully real well) in society, but we have the "other, secret" side of us that creeps into our consciousness and mars it, and also takes up our time at night or other times. but I think that many of us are "Living" a lot on the outside. Ironically it is precisely for that reason that the pain of our secret life is so great, because you're like, I really don't need this, I could have a great life without it!
And we will!
i think you two are right.
happens to be i used to be pretty depressed. and combined with the addiction, well, i
wasn't functioning.
so for me, had to make a lot of major changes.
but people like IT, trying, you guys....
you're all already living. so it was just an issue of focusing on and enjoying all the things you were all already doing.
and since IT doesn't usually talk about his day to day life, i didn't see it, i guess.
thanks for clarifying