How to Dance in the Rain
>
> It was a busy morning,
> about 8:30
> ,
> when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived at the
> hospital
> to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was
> in a hurry as he had
> an appointment at 9:00
> am.
> I
> took
> his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would
> be over an hour
> before someone would to able to see
> him.
> I
> saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not
> busy
> with another patient,
> I
> would
> evaluate his
> wound. On exam, it was well healed,
> so
> I
> talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to
> remove
> his sutures and redress his
> wound.
>
>
>
> While taking
> care of his wound,
> I asked him if he had another
> doctor's
> appointment
> this morning, as he was in such a
> hurry.
>
>
> The gentleman
> told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to
> eat breakfast with
> his wife. I inquired as to her
> health.
>
>
>
> He told me
>
> that
> she
> had been there
> for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's
> Disease.
>
>
> As we talked,
> I
> asked if she would be upset if he was a bit
> late.
>
>
>
>
> He replied
> that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not
> recognized him in five
> years
> now.
>
>
> I was surprised, and asked
> him, 'And you still go every
> morning, even though she doesn't know who you
> are?'
>
>
>
>
> He smiled
>
>
> As he patted
> my hand and
> said,
>
>
> 'She doesn't
> know me,
>
>
> But
> I
> still know who she
> is.'
>
>
> I had to hold back tears
> as he left,
> I
> had goose bumps on my arm, and
> thought,
>
>
>
> 'That is the
> kind of love
>
>
> I want in my
> life.'
>
>
>
> True love is
> neither
>
> Physical, nor
>
> romantic.
>
>
> True love is
> an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will
> not
> be.
> With all the jokes and
> fun that are in e-mails,
> sometimes there is one that comes along that has an
> important message. This
> one
> I thought
>
>
> I could share with
> you.
>
>
> The happiest
> people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
>
>
> They just
> make the best
>
> Of everything
> they
> have.
>
>
> I hope you
> share this with someone you care about.
>
>
> I
> just did.
>
>
> 'Life isn't
> about how to survive the
> storm,
>
>
> But
> how to dance in
> the rain.