israel613120 wrote:
This is all really useful stuff for me too.
I think I'll start my own thread as a kinda log, see I am over 100 days with no p***, amazing, I had a great Shavous and Shabbos, but now I am scared, like kind of an anti climax.
Even though I reached 90, I didn't feel any big change, and when looking ahead, I feel I can't see myself p*** free for the rest of my life.
I definitely recommend starting your own thread. I have found it quite helpful at times. It provides a sense of direction in your posts so it's not just "I post when I feel like it", but it's more committed. (Especially if you want to stay on the first page.
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) Also as Chachaman reminded me it allows you to look back at a large period of time and see how your doing and what has and hasn't worked.
Mazel Tov indeed on your over 90 days! With regard to not feeling any big change, do you mean that you don't feel a big change from 80 days to 90 days? Or you don't even feel a change from 0 days to 90 days? When I first started the 90 day chart and I reached 90 days on my first try (hold the applause that was over 7 months ago and I haven't been that high since), I asked myself do I feel different? I realized that from 80 to 90 didn't feel that much different than from 0 to 10 but the total of 0 to 90 was huge. While the 90 days are each "one day" when you put them together in a continuous streak I think that it really does change us. When I finished I was not the person I was when I started. Yes, I fell afterward. Yes, I have fallen many times since. But even so I am much improved (even if only measured in the confidence that I can do this) since completing 90 days.
With regard to the rest of our lives, yeah it is a little daunting. I try not to think about it too much. I don't know what else to say. Just remember that each additional day which you add to your 90 brings you farther down the road which leads to being able to see ourselves being po** free for the rest of our lives. Maybe you (we) can't see it now but we are heading in the right direction.