I started to realize Im losing hair a few year ago so a doctor friend of mine prescribed Propetia for me and it had a side affect I really liked. It took my desire away to some degree. Enough for me to focus but not enough to interfere with my marriage life. once in a while I have to use some viagra (also in secret) but after so many years of struggling, I feel this was a solution for me. I'm not even sure it is the pills anymore because my doctor friend said the side effect doesnt work that way, but everyday I take it, it makes me feel like Im taking a medication for it. I feel it is like any other disease that needs a pill. If you have a high blood pressure you have to take pills so if I have an addiction problem, I have to take a pill. I may be extreme but it has worked for me so far. And the side effect of the medication is that Im not losing hair as much.... ;D