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Re: Wake Sleepy up! 30 Oct 2019 23:17 #344745

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markz wrote:
"Here on gye I believe the 1st reality is getting sober 90 days plus."

BH i happen to have a high number in the sober  count also  if thats whats necessary to post.
For an explanation on my choice of username and avatar see my first post
Last Edit: 30 Oct 2019 23:27 by sleepy.

Re: Wake Sleepy up! 30 Oct 2019 23:30 #344746

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sleepy wrote on 30 Oct 2019 22:34:

Markz wrote on 30 Oct 2019 19:56:
This is possible, and that is possible...
Life abounds with many possibilities...


Here on gye I believe the 1st reality is getting sober 90 days plus.





"Here on gye I believe the 1st reality is getting sober 90 days plus."

that is also possible...
although i have discussed with some people on gye who disagree with that theory.

I’m referring to the idea of sharing what works for me or if I like Dov or Meds or Chinese food.
I believe a person should hold off opinions on these so long as one is in the tunnel trying to break free... and doesn’t really know which is good for him...

btw I wish you’d not waste your time on Karl Marx quotes and do something better like take the most radical Dov post, paste it here and break it apart.... That would be fun
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Re: Wake Sleepy up! 30 Oct 2019 23:55 #344752

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How about start with this Dov post, and hey he even mentioned your name...

Dov wrote on 18 Jan 2012 04:54:
1- For this guy it's 'healthy' - it is good for him and his life, he says.

2- For this guy it is evil, a real problem because it's assur.

3- For another guy it is too bad, but a freebie because he is an adidct.

Gevalt, is this a buffet?

I thought people were coming here to get a problem solved, not to write a new hagadah shel pesach.

This is all dumb philosophizing. Truth is beyond us, and when it is before us, we do not listen anyhow, so it's irrelevant. What is relevant is what is this doing to me and why we take a vacation from it - yet always predictably come back to the porn, the unzipping the pants, and the masturbating ourselves. It is pathetic, but nu - is it a problem for you, or for me, or is it not? That is the only question. Do you want to stop? Not does the Torah want to stop - you won't listen just as you never have! But just like all the many goyim I know is sexual recovery from porn and mastubation: do they want to stop - do you? It is the only question. And no one can make your mind up for you. Either you are finished, had enough fake sex and orgasms...or you want some more.

The door to recovery is open. But it takes a motivation that cannot be supplied by anyone, even G-d. Ein hadovor tolui ella bee. That is not referring to stopping - just to quitting, giving it up for now, for today.

Too sleepy gotta go, head spinning from medication now, good night, chabibi,

Though you often sound like one who just wants excuses to porn out better, I still Love you a lot,

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Re: Wake Sleepy up! 31 Oct 2019 00:42 #344755

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Markz wrote on 30 Oct 2019 23:55:
How about start with this Dov post, and hey he even mentioned your name...

Dov wrote on 18 Jan 2012 04:54:
1- For this guy it's 'healthy' - it is good for him and his life, he says.

2- For this guy it is evil, a real problem because it's assur.

3- For another guy it is too bad, but a freebie because he is an adidct.

Gevalt, is this a buffet?

I thought people were coming here to get a problem solved, not to write a new hagadah shel pesach.

This is all dumb philosophizing. Truth is beyond us, and when it is before us, we do not listen anyhow, so it's irrelevant. What is relevant is what is this doing to me and why we take a vacation from it - yet always predictably come back to the porn, the unzipping the pants, and the masturbating ourselves. It is pathetic, but nu - is it a problem for you, or for me, or is it not? That is the only question. Do you want to stop? Not does the Torah want to stop - you won't listen just as you never have! But just like all the many goyim I know is sexual recovery from porn and mastubation: do they want to stop - do you? It is the only question. And no one can make your mind up for you. Either you are finished, had enough fake sex and orgasms...or you want some more.

The door to recovery is open. But it takes a motivation that cannot be supplied by anyone, even G-d. Ein hadovor tolui ella bee. That is not referring to stopping - just to quitting, giving it up for now, for today.

Too sleepy gotta go, head spinning from medication now, good night, chabibi,

Though you often sound like one who just wants excuses to porn out better, I still Love you a lot,

- Dov


thanks for the share, i have what to say but i already gave 3 points why i feel its not for me , thats enough, this is not a dov roasting thread ,and after all that is said and done, he is a person who has helped many , i ,as i mentioned above,posted what i posted for the reason mentioned above and dayeinu, im not here looking for fun, there are other websites for that,if i may sound  loud on other posts its usually at someone(s) who i(and others)  feel is intimidating myself or others from posting what they feel as right in their ,just like you and me, .
as for the guy named sleepy, that isnt me ,its sleepy  #1 who i happened to replace,he got fired  for hitting on snow white too much ,im happy to know that he joined gye. does anyone know where he is nowadays?
​btw ,i dont know why they called the witch from the east  wicked ,s.w. aint so snow white i think shes wicked  too, oops there i go dehumanizing again...
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Last Edit: 31 Oct 2019 00:52 by sleepy.

Re: Wake Sleepy up! 31 Oct 2019 01:03 #344758

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sleepy wrote on 31 Oct 2019 00:42:

Markz wrote on 30 Oct 2019 23:55:
How about start with this Dov post, and hey he even mentioned your name...

Dov wrote on 18 Jan 2012 04:54:
1- For this guy it's 'healthy' - it is good for him and his life, he says.

2- For this guy it is evil, a real problem because it's assur.

3- For another guy it is too bad, but a freebie because he is an adidct.

Gevalt, is this a buffet?

I thought people were coming here to get a problem solved, not to write a new hagadah shel pesach.

This is all dumb philosophizing. Truth is beyond us, and when it is before us, we do not listen anyhow, so it's irrelevant. What is relevant is what is this doing to me and why we take a vacation from it - yet always predictably come back to the porn, the unzipping the pants, and the masturbating ourselves. It is pathetic, but nu - is it a problem for you, or for me, or is it not? That is the only question. Do you want to stop? Not does the Torah want to stop - you won't listen just as you never have! But just like all the many goyim I know is sexual recovery from porn and mastubation: do they want to stop - do you? It is the only question. And no one can make your mind up for you. Either you are finished, had enough fake sex and orgasms...or you want some more.

The door to recovery is open. But it takes a motivation that cannot be supplied by anyone, even G-d. Ein hadovor tolui ella bee. That is not referring to stopping - just to quitting, giving it up for now, for today.

Too sleepy gotta go, head spinning from medication now, good night, chabibi,

Though you often sound like one who just wants excuses to porn out better, I still Love you a lot,

- Dov


thanks for the share, i have what to say but i already gave 3 points why i feel its not for me , thats enough, this is not a dov roasting thread ,and after all that is said and done, he is a person who has helped many , i ,as i mentioned above,posted what i posted for the reason mentioned above and dayeinu, im not here looking for fun, there are other websites for that,if i may sound  loud on other posts its usually at someone(s) who i(and others)  feel is intimidating myself or others from posting what they feel as right in their ,just like you and me, .
as for the guy named sleepy, that isnt me ,its sleepy  #1 who i happened to replace,he got fired  for hitting on snow white too much ,im happy to know that he joined gye. does anyone know where he is nowadays?
​btw ,i dont know why they called the witch from the east  wicked ,s.w. aint so snow white i think shes wicked  too, oops there i go dehumanizing again...

You have a cool sense of humor

I like how you and Dov both said Dayenu
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Re: Wake Sleepy up! 31 Oct 2019 05:49 #344768

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i think that for different people the forum has different uses.
everyone is entitled to his opinion as to what the forum should or shouldnt be used for. (i think that cyber bullying is an exception and there are prob. others but i mean in general.) 
as long as we dont break cords airtight super strict rules and we dont use too many four letter words in one post, i think its fair game as to what the forum should be used for.
people are different and many people benefit from the forum in different ways.
some people need support.
some people need to vent.
some people want to share experienced opinions.
some people want to say over inexperienced opinions and become clear through discussion. 
the list goes on.
kulam ahuvim.
no one has to like every post.
personally, i dont think posts should be invalidated either. (debated sure, but not shrugged or laughed off without reason. obviously theres no rules, as stated above and everyone will make their own decision regarding that.)
one word about annoying posts. (such as this one.)
 i think that the best way to deal with a post that you personally find annoying (there are various-thats an understatement, types on gye some may not find ''it'' annoying) is probably to ignore it rather than engage. 
and by the way - you can disagree with every word of this post as well.
thats all part of it. (not that anyone needs permission, im just bringing out the point.)
Last Edit: 31 Oct 2019 12:30 by higher.

Re: Wake Sleepy up! 31 Oct 2019 13:31 #344778

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higher wrote on 31 Oct 2019 05:49:
i think that for different people the forum has different uses.
everyone is entitled to his opinion as to what the forum should or shouldnt be used for. (i think that cyber bullying is an exception and there are prob. others but i mean in general.) 
as long as we dont break cords airtight super strict rules and we dont use too many four letter words in one post, i think its fair game as to what the forum should be used for.
people are different and many people benefit from the forum in different ways.
some people need support.
some people need to vent.
some people want to share experienced opinions.
some people want to say over inexperienced opinions and become clear through discussion. 
the list goes on.
kulam ahuvim.
no one has to like every post.
personally, i dont think posts should be invalidated either. (debated sure, but not shrugged or laughed off without reason. obviously theres no rules, as stated above and everyone will make their own decision regarding that.)
one word about annoying posts. (such as this one.)
 i think that the best way to deal with a post that you personally find annoying (there are various-thats an understatement, types on gye some may not find ''it'' annoying) is probably to ignore it rather than engage. 
and by the way - you can disagree with every word of this post as well.
thats all part of it. (not that anyone needs permission, im just bringing out the point.)

“I don’t think posts should be invalidated“
You’re my man. At least I have 1 guy that will sign on all that I write. 

Just btw, if your post was a reply to what about what I wrote about friends here having an opinion about what does or doesn’t work, you may have missed the “Mark”, because I never said nothing about the rules and regs of GYE posts. Please re-read it and maybe also push the Quote button so we know what you’re responding to

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Re: Wake Sleepy up! 31 Oct 2019 17:30 #344795

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Markz wrote on 31 Oct 2019 13:31:

higher wrote on 31 Oct 2019 05:49:
i think that for different people the forum has different uses.
everyone is entitled to his opinion as to what the forum should or shouldnt be used for. (i think that cyber bullying is an exception and there are prob. others but i mean in general.) 
as long as we dont break cords airtight super strict rules and we dont use too many four letter words in one post, i think its fair game as to what the forum should be used for.
people are different and many people benefit from the forum in different ways.
some people need support.
some people need to vent.
some people want to share experienced opinions.
some people want to say over inexperienced opinions and become clear through discussion. 
the list goes on.
kulam ahuvim.
no one has to like every post.
personally, i dont think posts should be invalidated either. (debated sure, but not shrugged or laughed off without reason. obviously theres no rules, as stated above and everyone will make their own decision regarding that.)
one word about annoying posts. (such as this one.)
 i think that the best way to deal with a post that you personally find annoying (there are various-thats an understatement, types on gye some may not find ''it'' annoying) is probably to ignore it rather than engage. 
and by the way - you can disagree with every word of this post as well.
thats all part of it. (not that anyone needs permission, im just bringing out the point.)

“I don’t think posts should be invalidated“
You’re my man. At least I have 1 guy that will sign on all that I write. 

Just btw, if your post was a reply to what about what I wrote about friends here having an opinion about what does or doesn’t work, you may have missed the “Mark”, because I never said nothing about the rules and regs of GYE posts. Please re-read it and maybe also push the Quote button so we know what you’re responding to





markz wrote:
#MakeDovGreatAgain

sleepy wrote:
AMEN!!
For an explanation on my choice of username and avatar see my first post
Last Edit: 31 Oct 2019 18:58 by sleepy.

Re: Wake Sleepy up! 31 Oct 2019 17:34 #344796

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higher wrote on 31 Oct 2019 05:49:
i think that for different people the forum has different uses.
everyone is entitled to his opinion as to what the forum should or shouldnt be used for. (i think that cyber bullying is an exception and there are prob. others but i mean in general.) 
as long as we dont break cords airtight super strict rules and we dont use too many four letter words in one post, i think its fair game as to what the forum should be used for.
people are different and many people benefit from the forum in different ways.
some people need support.
some people need to vent.
some people want to share experienced opinions.
some people want to say over inexperienced opinions and become clear through discussion. 
the list goes on.
kulam ahuvim.
no one has to like every post.
personally, i dont think posts should be invalidated either. (debated sure, but not shrugged or laughed off without reason. obviously theres no rules, as stated above and everyone will make their own decision regarding that.)
one word about annoying posts. (such as this one.)
 i think that the best way to deal with a post that you personally find annoying (there are various-thats an understatement, types on gye some may not find ''it'' annoying) is probably to ignore it rather than engage. 
and by the way - you can disagree with every word of this post as well.
thats all part of it. (not that anyone needs permission, im just bringing out the point.)

thank you articulating my same feelings(and others),hatzlacha!
For an explanation on my choice of username and avatar see my first post
Last Edit: 31 Oct 2019 17:35 by sleepy.

Re: Wake Sleepy up! 31 Oct 2019 18:38 #344801

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Markz wrote on 31 Oct 2019 13:31:

higher wrote on 31 Oct 2019 05:49:
i think that for different people the forum has different uses.
everyone is entitled to his opinion as to what the forum should or shouldnt be used for. (i think that cyber bullying is an exception and there are prob. others but i mean in general.) 
as long as we dont break cords airtight super strict rules and we dont use too many four letter words in one post, i think its fair game as to what the forum should be used for.
people are different and many people benefit from the forum in different ways.
some people need support.
some people need to vent.
some people want to share experienced opinions.
some people want to say over inexperienced opinions and become clear through discussion. 
the list goes on.
kulam ahuvim.
no one has to like every post.
personally, i dont think posts should be invalidated either. (debated sure, but not shrugged or laughed off without reason. obviously theres no rules, as stated above and everyone will make their own decision regarding that.)
one word about annoying posts. (such as this one.)
 i think that the best way to deal with a post that you personally find annoying (there are various-thats an understatement, types on gye some may not find ''it'' annoying) is probably to ignore it rather than engage. 
and by the way - you can disagree with every word of this post as well.
thats all part of it. (not that anyone needs permission, im just bringing out the point.)

“I don’t think posts should be invalidated“
You’re my man. At least I have 1 guy that will sign on all that I write. 

Just btw, if your post was a reply to what about what I wrote about friends here having an opinion about what does or doesn’t work, you may have missed the “Mark”, because I never said nothing about the rules and regs of GYE posts. Please re-read it and maybe also push the Quote button so we know what you’re responding to

#MakeDovGreatAgain

not invalidating a post does not mean signing onto it. (in my opinion )
it just means not making a joke of someones post. i spelled that out in the post. (#but debate is great, even now).
my post was a general post. there are many pieces of inspiration throughout gye that influenced it. it was overdue before this thread started.
you may take it how you want, (or dont want), it.
hatzlacha.
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