TrYiNg wrote on 23 Sep 2009 12:26:
Gevaaldigggg is right.
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So in short would that mean that rh, is for 'him' and yk focus on 'us'?
but my feeling is the focus is on HASHEM, our Melech, and how WE relate to HIM
Sounds amazing, but very theoretical. (I guess its not so shayich anymore anyway. RH is over)
To your first question, in short, that's our focus, the way that we "paint" the days, if you will.
They are both all about our relationship with Him.
Aren't women supposed to be all about relationship?
Ya know, I hear there must be two parties to have one, so to say one day is about one side is not so pashut.
It's the connection, the kesher, that's the focus.
That in itself has many aspects and we may focus on different aspects at diff times, i.e. din and rachamim.
To your second point, it is so shayach!!
Every holiday is eternal. We don't celebrate R"H because many years ago the world was created.
We don't sit at the seder just b/c so many years ago we left Mitzrayim.
There is hischadshus every year, liros es atzmo k'ilu yatza mimitzrayim, and in connection to what I wrote above,
and I think it connects to Battleworn's and Mom's words, we are (can be at least) mamlich HKB"H every day!
These things are always going on, we just feel them stronger at certain times.