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Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 14 Feb 2010 16:11 #53090

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משנכנס אדר מרבים בשמחה

Everyone get up and dance... RIGHT NOW!!

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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 14 Feb 2010 17:03 #53098

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Ok now I'm dizzy!!

How am I supposed to dance by myself??? all those circles are just too much for one person.
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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 14 Feb 2010 17:06 #53099

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Yiddle2 wrote on 14 Feb 2010 16:11:

משנכנס אדר מרבים בשמחה

Everyone get up and dance... RIGHT NOW!!


I was dancing so hard that the floor was shaking.  And then it occurred to me: I've been tricked - Adar doesn't begin until tonight!  :-[ :-[ :-[ > > > :D :D :D ;D ;D ;D
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 14 Feb 2010 17:10 #53102

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Kedusha wrote on 14 Feb 2010 17:06:

Yiddle2 wrote on 14 Feb 2010 16:11:

משנכנס אדר מרבים בשמחה

Everyone get up and dance... RIGHT NOW!!


I was dancing so hard that the floor was shaking.  And then it occurred to me: I've been tricked - Adar doesn't begin until tonight!  :-[ :-[ :-[ > > > :D :D :D ;D ;D ;D


I am Maskim, Kedusha. But the line is translated as follows: "From when you enter Adar, uou should increase in happiness." This means that whatever level of happiness I am on before Adar, I have to one up that once Adar comes. So if we make our level of happiness very high before Adar, then we have to one up that already elevated level of happiness when Adar comes.  ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 14 Feb 2010 20:40 #53141

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Yiddle:  thx.

Kedusha: I expect you're kidding.  Even so, if you're looking for proofs why you SHOULDN'T get up and dance, and to put off 'til tomorrow what you might do today, I'd say the heck with you.  Dance now, ask questions later. 

Or you could add one to the gematria and decide it's Adar already. Or that by 12 noon ET it's already Adar in E'Y and you could be doing this dance with THEM in your head.

But who cares, 'get up offa that thing, and dance 'til you feel better' (my pre-frum days give me a never-ending supply of rocknroll lyrics for all occasions).
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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 14 Feb 2010 21:58 #53159

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does that mean I gotta keep chanching my name and pic tomorrow also???

I'm sure I made a big stir today, I just can't see the ripple effect. NO angry emails, no probation, no parental controll on my profile, any not a single response, except for one reffrence from 7up.  SHeesh this place is slow today.


But BH with all this simcha I'm keeping myself out of tru=ouble, away from triggers, and i found a new hobby that isn't fueled by my tayvas nashim!
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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 14 Feb 2010 22:05 #53163

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Yiddle2 wrote on 14 Feb 2010 17:10:

Kedusha wrote on 14 Feb 2010 17:06:

Yiddle2 wrote on 14 Feb 2010 16:11:

משנכנס אדר מרבים בשמחה

Everyone get up and dance... RIGHT NOW!!


I was dancing so hard that the floor was shaking.  And then it occurred to me: I've been tricked - Adar doesn't begin until tonight!   :-[ :-[ :-[ > > > :D :D :D ;D ;D ;D


I am Maskim, Kedusha. But the line is translated as follows: "From when you enter Adar, uou should increase in happiness." This means that whatever level of happiness I am on before Adar, I have to one up that once Adar comes. So if we make our level of happiness very high before Adar, then we have to one up that already elevated level of happiness when Adar comes.   ;D ;D ;D


The joke's on you - I didn't really dance today! :D ;D

Seriously, Yiddle, your explanation is very clever.

Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 14 Feb 2010 23:15 #53178

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sHeMiRaTeInAyIm wrote on 14 Feb 2010 21:58:

does that mean I gotta keep chanching my name and pic tomorrow also???

I'm sure I made a big stir today, I just can't see the ripple effect. NO angry emails, no probation, no parental controll on my profile, any not a single response, except for one reffrence from 7up.  SHeesh this place is slow today.


But BH with all this simcha I'm keeping myself out of tru=ouble, away from triggers, and i found a new hobby that isn't fueled by my tayvas nashim!


I believe I made some reference in one of 7Up's threads (I think the serious one).  ;D ;D ;D ;D

Hey Kedusha, ITS NOW ADAR HERE SO GET UP, PUT ON SOME MUSIC, AND DANCE!!! I want to hear that you took the minimum shiur to dance. I won't be satisfied and completely happy until you do. So now your Simcha AND my Simcha are talui (?? dependent) on you dancing. Now shake your legs and tell me about it!  

Thanks Briut, what did you dance to? :o :o :o :o

-Yiddle

P.S> And another point..... GUARD this applies to you as well!!! Music of your choice. Grab your kids. Grab you friends. And just dance!

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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 14 Feb 2010 23:51 #53180

Who cares?!!! Just since and thank HKB"H for being ALIVE!!

Increase in Simcha should be a regular thing.  Now that it's Adar it tends to come more naturally - but even more so - one is mechuyav to increase his Joy - so if one was already on a gevaldic level before Adar - al achas kama v'kama - imagine the Simcha by the end of Adar that will carry you through Yetzias Mitzraim!

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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 15 Feb 2010 02:32 #53209

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yiddle,
did I say I danced?
read my post carefully.

sometimes I talk a better game than I do.

it's not a good week to find a dancing partner. and my kids aren't avail right now.

so I guess I should dance anyhow.

AND BY NOW IT REALLY IS ADAR!!!
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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 15 Feb 2010 03:29 #53220

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Yiddle, you are SO right!

I need to dance. But I'm sick...so I'll dance when I get better!
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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 15 Feb 2010 12:00 #53301

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silentbattle wrote on 15 Feb 2010 03:29:

Yiddle, you are SO right!

I need to dance. But I'm sick...so I'll dance when I get better!
Wrong SB. dance and you will get better!!

Oh and btw yiddle, thanks for the reminder. I was wondering what hppened to that month?!? ???
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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 15 Feb 2010 16:22 #53363

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Everyone is so busy doing their daily routines that they forget that Purim is coming!!! Only Purim will last when the 3rd Beis Hamikdash will be built (bemheirah beyamainu). Dont wake up on the 14th of Adar and just "do" Purim. Prepare for it, get excited for it, get HAPPY!! Ivdu es Hashem BESIMACHA.

Have a Simcha-filled day EVERYONE!

-Yiddle

P.S I am not Breslov or Lubavitch or even Chassidish, so for me this really comes form within. 
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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 15 Feb 2010 18:38 #53381

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imtrying25 wrote on 15 Feb 2010 12:00:

Wrong SB. dance and you will get better!!


Tell you what, IT - I'll dance in YOUR house, and if I ______ (again), YOU have to clean it up! :D :D

Actually, I think I'm mostly better at this point...whew! Time to dance!

[Moderator's note: Just thinking of those who haven't eaten lunch yet!  ;)]
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Re: Important for EVERYONE on GYE to read!! 15 Feb 2010 21:31 #53429

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Hey if you dance SB, Ill clean it up! Eh not really but well get the cleaning lady to do it.

PS. MISHENICHNAS ADAR MARBIM BESIMCHA!!!
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