im working the steps.i just finished my second cycle,however although i feel better kinder and more alive however its not being mirrored in practical sobriety.i was wondering if making 1. goals 2. accountblty is recommended or will that compromise on surrender.

in other words should i rely just on the steps or combine the steps with goals as would a non addict???

have a great week everyone!!!!
all the best!!

Do you have a sponsor guiding you through the steps?

im doing the phone conferences

So i suggest you asked your phone moderator this question.

He is obviously an experienced 12 stepper, and you both know each other...