Wait a minute...you were there? Don't write it here of course, but can you PM or email me to tell me who you were? i just am not connecting the username with the real person, obviously (and too lazy to look thru all our correspondences
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In any case, wow what chizzuk that is, to me. i really felt that it might have been unhelpful for some of the people there, maybe even for more than some...haha, and there is sexaholic-me making myself more relevant than I really am again! G-d runs things, not me, and one thing I know for certain: I could feel that G-d was there. The guys and their wives were amazing, real, and shared simply and powerfully.
Thanks for the entire experience.