momo my friend....
ijust fell. do not!
i promise the yeser hara is lying about what a fall really is...its a gigantic lie!!!... all which follows is pain rejeret and a new treck of a journey.... pain regret and a start over... do not listen to this evil voice, IT WANT YOU TO DIE
do not listen to it...listen to HAKASOSH BARUCH HU... take it from a person who about an hour ago didnt and has learnt the very hard way

jamie wrote on 06 Jun 2010 13:36:

Oh man, just saw this. Too late. I fell this afternoon.
We've got to forgive ourselves and pick ourselves up tomorrow.

Pick yourself up now! Do something that you enjoy to get your mind off of your fall.

I often wonder what "getting up" really means...

Dov: no more viagra jokes. this is NOT the joke corner. this is the crisis thread for folks who think there's nothing to do in life except [that] and/or [that]. and we wanna help them. maybe by, ahdunno, telling some jokes.

Oh. I get it. Carry on, Dov.

Will you knock it off Dr Dimento! (hey, do you remember that guy? I think he was a radio character I liked, but can't really remember any details about it...maybe I need some viagra. Sorry, Briut... ;D)

Anyway, it was really a serious question. Getting up after a fall, to me, implies that the person is on his or her way to do something. Could it possibly just be getting back on the same horse that threw you a minute ago (and fifty-seven times before that, too)? Is this wisdom at all?

Just a thought. It seems there may need to be a change of 'horses' here, even if it is the middle of the stream.

OK, today's gonna be tough... i have most of the day home (practically) alone with the computer... im gonna try and stay away from all of them except for my laptop which has a filter - easier said than done.

maybe i should take a shvua on staying away from these computers for the next X number of hours... what do u guys think?

that sounds like a good idea, i would also suggest closing all the doors to the rooms with the computers with out filter so if you go near them, the close door will remind you that you are not allowed in there and the tumah is closed off to you.

A list always works for me, make two and put them up where you can see them, think long and hard abut them and use asmuch detail as possible
1. consequences of breaking (i.e certain amount of pleasure - remember, if youve kept it for a long time will be v.short anyway)
2. consequences of keeping (i.e imagine how much nachos and what great mitzvah it is to keep it in the hardest of times!)

Ill daven for you bro!

So far your prayers seem to have worked wonders... although hopefully tonight wont be a different story when Im left alone again for a while...

COMON MATE...IMAGINE THE LEVELS YOUR REACH IN SHAMAYIM IF YOU SURVIVE TONIGHT...OE OUNCE OF PLEASURE IN OLOM HABA ISNT EQUAL TO ALL THE PLEASURE IN THIS WORLD...THINK OF THE REWRDS HERE AND UPSTAIRS!!!!!


COMON!!!!!!!

COME TO THE PUB OF LONDON AND WELL HAVE A LCHAIM IF YOU GET THORUGH TONIGHT!!!

GOGOGO!

Jamie
Try to imagine the world is on a scale level of  half good and half  bad, your  right in the middle,your  the one who can make  the scale go eathier way if you stay good ur tipping it over on the good side  but C"V if you fall oh vey it goes the other way!! The world is watching you now!!!

Ahron wrote on 07 Jun 2010 21:03:

Hunnh? You will NOT be alone tonight! HKBH is looking right over your shoulder! Now, that's sorta hard to imagine. So think instead, your GRANDMOTHER is looking over your shoulder. Your RAV. Your 7-yr-old cousin! Etc.

Oh, but if our fear of flesh and blood equaled our fear of heaven!  Just remember that He is there. Talk to Him so you'll remember that He is. Make Him a cup of tea. DON'T LET HIM LEAVE YOU. Whaddya think?

Ahron wrote on 07 Jun 2010 15:01:
Relax. It'll all be over soon.

Help - i just started to look and by miricale i was disgusted by it.... i think i'm going to take a nap i gotta get away. Yesterdays chizuk i thikn is heleping me now