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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 19 Jan 2010 16:16 #46939

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	kanesher wrote on 18 Jan 2010 12:58: remind me again why I don't want to fall? Think "Nachas Ruach" vs. "Kotzer Ruach"
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 19 Jan 2010 16:21 #46940

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	kanesher wrote on 18 Jan 2010 12:58: remind me again why I don't want to fall? Gan Eden vs. Gehinom. (I'm not referring to the afterlife - I'm talking about the here and now.)
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: by .

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 19 Jan 2010 16:25 #46941

kollel guy Current streak: 15 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 478 Karma: 1	L'horid Ha'Mashchis vs. Sheol Tachtis
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 19 Jan 2010 19:20 #46978

kanesher OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 505 Karma: 0	I'm ok people - thanks for all your help. And guard - sneaky. Sneaky sneaky.... Guard is always sneaky. Beware the guard...
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 19 Jan 2010 19:22 #46980

shemirateinayim Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 746 Karma: 0	If you fall I'm going down with you. How do you fall with k9??????? oh yeh, minn nissyonos.... wimp. just kidin. But cmon i got unlimited acces, so see yourself as lucky, you got alot less to deal with. Oh yeh, so if you fall, I'm gonna blame it on you.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 19 Jan 2010 19:24 #46981

shemirateinayim Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 746 Karma: 0	Oh and although I BH weatherd the last nissayon, pls respond to my post on the wall of honor. I'll need your chizuk very soon. I' going through a VERY hard time in life.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Jan 2010 12:47 #48269

kanesher OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 505 Karma: 0	SOS
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Jan 2010 12:49 #48270

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 12	Heard an echo over the mechitza. Can I help?
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: by .

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Jan 2010 12:50 #48271

kanesher OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 505 Karma: 0	Hi Rebbetzin.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Jan 2010 12:59 #48272

kanesher OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 505 Karma: 0	Just depressed. Particularly grumpy about marriage.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Jan 2010 13:03 #48273

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 12	Can I help? Online or off?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Jan 2010 13:08 #48274

kanesher OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 505 Karma: 0	les miserables... just, the marriage version. Some idiot bragged today about his marriage etc. depressing. depressing. unfair.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Jan 2010 13:52 #48281

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As happy as we are that the next guy has bracha in his life,
the pained part of our neshama says 'not fair'.
Especially regarding something as important as marriage.

We have a few choices:

Too focus on his marrriage (great) and know nothing about his chinuch banim pain, financial hardships or medical issues.

To focus on our marriage (not great) instead of on our great kids, adequate parnossa and good health,

Or to refocus on ours, trying to improve ourselves and hopefully bringing our marriage skills up with us.

I know; talk is easy.
May Hashem help you build a happy, fulfilling, bayis neeman b'yisrael.

Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Jan 2010 14:05 #48287

kollel guy Current streak: 15 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 478 Karma: 1	kanesher wrote on 25 Jan 2010 13:08: les miserables... just, the marriage version. Some idiot bragged today about his marriage etc. depressing. depressing. unfair. Would it make it any better if we told you about the not-so-pleasant parts of our marriages?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Jan 2010 18:04 #48372

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	The people who talk about how perfect and easy marriage is...sometimes I get suspicious... But that's not the point. You have your work cut out for you, and it may not be easy, but you're doing it! And that's worth feeling proud about.
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