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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 05 Oct 2009 03:57 #21885

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	Kanesher, I would add that, it's not only addicts who might have inappropriate thoughts in this situation. So cut yourself some slack, my friend!
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: by Tudres.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 05 Oct 2009 21:46 #21965

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kanesher wrote on 04 Oct 2009 12:52:

I got triggered by some next door neighbor - I didn't even seek out anything. She burned her arm with a pan and her husband wasn't - and she banged desperately on our door screaming in pain. I took care of it as best as I could, with cold water and silverdine and calmed, found her husband and sent them off to miun.

I feel like such a pervert. I got triggered by THAT. and it's unfair. What I was suppose to do? "Sorry, I'm struggling with lust addiction, do you think you could scream and knock next door?"

Woops! Just read this post, I guess the PM I sent you looks pretty dumb, now! Ha.
1- ditto to kedusha. this kind of trigger isn't exclusive to addicts, pervs, etc. Sometimes it just happens because - we are not dead.
2- there may be few things more triggerring to me, a person who knows the power of lust and has used it, than suddenly encountering a person of the opposite gender who is deperately in need of help turning to me with vulnerability, putting her trust in me and me alone. Oh, and we are kind of alone.
If I'm a real sicko, sorry. I guess I'll just pretend my arm is the blintz next time....

"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 06 Oct 2009 01:00 #21991

sunnycheetah84 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1043 Karma: 0	Dov,your insight, and honest candidness (is that a double of the same thing? Like: Good Yom Tov = good good day) are amazing. k
	Rashi, Breishis (10:25) Last Edit: by challengevictor.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Oct 2009 17:08 #22209

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On The Road wrote on 07 Oct 2009 17:05:

I just wanted to add a small note about the im about to fall thread. If you want to reach out. you dont necessarily have to wait until someone responds to the post. at this link: rehab-my-site.com/guardureyes/forum/index.php?action=who;start=0;sort=user you can se who is online and where they are. Say you feel like you want to talk to a certain member who can help you.... you can click and see if there are onlnie and which thread they are on. Or you can pm them and know that they should see your message relatively soon. .... Just a thought ....

Great idea OTR.
Lets hope no one needs it, but...

Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Oct 2009 21:01 #22236

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On The Road wrote on 07 Oct 2009 17:23:

7Up wrote on 07 Oct 2009 17:08:

On The Road wrote on 07 Oct 2009 17:05:

Great idea OTR.
Lets hope no one needs it, but...

agreed. by the way, when you look at someones profile you can also click to bring up all of their recent posts. so if you like to follow what someone says and get chizuk from it you can see all of their previous posts there. I wonder if there is a tab to click to check if the kids brushed their teeth and washed negel vasser. Now THAT would be a great thing for a mom to have!

Watch out kids, moms spying

Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Oct 2009 21:35 #22253

Holy Yid Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Keep the mind engaged and the soul content Posts: 894 Karma: 1	I am feeling weak. I am looking for someone to chat with on gmail. Last night I exposed myself to something I should not have and now it is coming back to haunt me. I am focusing gently and fully on other subjects, but I still could use some chizuk. My email address is in my profile.
	זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים Last Edit: by Tyh613.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Oct 2009 22:38 #22258

jerusalemsexaddict	hey heilege yid, i hope youre holding out and feeling a little better youre email address is hidden opn your profile feel free to message me anotheryid@gmail.com
	Last Edit: by Griff0324.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Oct 2009 23:40 #22275

Holy Yid Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Keep the mind engaged and the soul content Posts: 894 Karma: 1	I am BH doing much better, sorry about email thought it was available. I may try one of you later.
	זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים Last Edit: by QX99.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 08 Oct 2009 00:06 #22282

helpless	I am feeling weak. Please someone help me. I have to be on computer for work. blessedgye@gmail
	Last Edit: by Hnik.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 08 Oct 2009 00:25 #22285

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	blessed wrote on 08 Oct 2009 00:06: I am feeling weak. Please someone help me. I have to be on computer for work. blessedgye@gmail Dear Blessed, I sent you an e-mail.
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: 08 Oct 2009 00:27 by Wengs.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 08 Oct 2009 09:27 #22322

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 12	I realize that this was a while ago already, but hope you're doing better and feeling stronger. Hold on!
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: by Rando.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 08 Oct 2009 12:05 #22329

lamed vavnik OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 1	stay strong blessed , we really are thinking of you and dovening for you . i haven't been on lately do to dovening and eating (and eating and eating......)i am saying a kepitel tehillim for you right now.
	Last Edit: 08 Oct 2009 21:19 by Deweyman.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 08 Oct 2009 12:13 #22331

helpless	thank to all, and especially those that contacted me, i made it through last night which is huge for me, i am now going to try and make it through the morning
	Last Edit: by gye4343.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 08 Oct 2009 21:20 #22410

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	blessed wrote on 08 Oct 2009 12:13: thank to all, and especially those that contacted me, i made it through last night which is huge for me, i am now going to try and make it through the morning Hatzlacha! Hope you're doing well!
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: by Lej.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 08 Oct 2009 22:17 #22436

Holy Yid Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Keep the mind engaged and the soul content Posts: 894 Karma: 1	blessed wrote on 08 Oct 2009 12:13: thank to all, and especially those that contacted me, i made it through last night which is huge for me, i am now going to try and make it through the morning Tell us, how was the morning?
	זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים Last Edit: by tj1.