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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Sep 2013 12:53 #218413

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Please pray for me RIGHT NOW!!!
Im going crazy!!! Praying and weeping while trying to stay focused on my work here in my office.

If theres anyone out there who knows what Im going through please pray for me right now!!

After posting this I will put the phone far far away from me and promise not to touch it until I go home for the day. Im afraid I will fall otherwise.
Help!!!!!
He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls. /Mishlei 25:28

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Sep 2013 14:35 #218415

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On my way home from work now. Update: victory over Y"H!!!

This was one of the hardest days... is it gonna get worse???

Horrible horrible roller coaster...
He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls. /Mishlei 25:28

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Sep 2013 15:52 #218422

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I understand what you're going through.

Take very deep breaths for a few minutes, I mean really deep and try to relax.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Sep 2013 16:23 #218427

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Shana tova!
He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls. /Mishlei 25:28

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Sep 2013 16:36 #218429

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thatguyoverthere wrote:
On my way home from work now. Update: victory over Y"H!!!

This was one of the hardest days... is it gonna get worse???

Horrible horrible roller coaster...


This too shall pass...

Stay with the process...

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Sep 2013 19:06 #218437

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Sometimes you just need to get around a bend to have open road.

Don't get discouraged, just hang in there.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Sep 2013 23:21 #218453

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Great job,

It does get easier after a while, but until then hang on with us.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2013 03:48 #218544

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I've been having my ups and downs, someone please give me something, I feel like
i'm gonna fall

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2013 03:53 #218545

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Wht do you want to fall? Has life been stressful?

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2013 05:23 #218547

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LEARNING wrote:
I've been having my ups and downs, someone please give me something, I feel like
i'm gonna fall


1- Keep your chin up! (and even if if you don't, still remember to...)

2- Keep your zipper up!

3- Keep posting!

4- Try being a lot clearer about what your stuff is really about. For example: Exactly what are you considering doing? Specifically what or who are you obsessing about? No fear (shame) is needed - and if you feel it is risky to post or feel too ashamed or think it will be too explicit and would give people ideas...then find people to call and talk to openly and let it all out.

...you asked for some ideas. These are what I and many others did, and do.

It works.

The old way works, too...to masturbate again.
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2013 05:37 #218549

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Dov wrote:


1- Keep your chin up! (and even if if you don't, still remember to...)

2- Keep your zipper up!



Re: I'm about to FALL!! 11 Sep 2013 01:44 #218808

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inastruggle wrote:
Dov wrote:


1- Keep your chin up! (and even if if you don't, still remember to...)

2- Keep your zipper up!




What's so funny?
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 11 Sep 2013 01:57 #218811

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"Analyzing humor is like dissecting a frog. Few people are interested and the frog dies in the end."

-E.B. White

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 11 Sep 2013 12:36 #218836

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inastruggle wrote:
"Analyzing humor is like dissecting a frog. Few people are interested and the frog dies in the end."

-E.B. White


Is it always a bad idea though?


crazyfrog.jpg

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 11 Sep 2013 16:47 #218846

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inastruggle wrote:
"Analyzing humor is like dissecting a frog. Few people are interested and the frog dies in the end."

-E.B. White

I don't know about you guys, but when I was in school, we used frogs that had already died before we started.
"ויעזור ויגן ויושיע לכל החוסים בו ונאמר אמן" -- ArtScroll Gabbai's Handbook
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