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SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!! 17 Feb 2011 00:37 #97305

  • Bochur14
Hi
I need some chizuk guys... If someone doesn't get back to me soon I'm probably gonna fall...SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 00:40 #97306

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Don't do it!! What's up. Hold stronng!!!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 00:41 #97307

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Do u have google chat?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 00:45 #97309

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Where'd u go bochur? Talk it out. Tell us what's happening. We're here for you. You've been doing phenomenally till now. Don't let the YH get you!! NOW IS THE MOMENT U CAN GIVE HASHEM INCREDIBLE NACHAS!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 00:46 #97310

  • Bochur14
Thanks macabee...
As soon as I posted here and stepped away from my desires for a second, I realized that I really didn't want to do this terrible aveira!!
Thanks for the chizuk and no, I don't have google chat.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 00:48 #97311

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AWESOME!!!! U almost gave me a heart-attack but that's another issue. :D 8) KOT

ROCK ON!!!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 00:56 #97313

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Thanks again Macabee...
I know a lot of other people have said this but it's honestly unbelievable how many tzadikim are on this site!!!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 02:40 #97323

  • Bochur14
I think I'll be ok, but I'm wavering...
Can someone please give me some chizuk?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 02:43 #97324

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2 things happening here. You want help so you're calling out, but at the same time you think MAYBE there's the slightest chance that I'll be able to hold out on this one. Is it absolutely necessary for you to be on the computer now? Or are u just bored?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 02:58 #97326

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I know it's ridiculous, but it really is just out of boredom... Thats how I usually get into this mess.
Also, this might sound funny, but it actually makes a big difference when I post something, even if I don't get a reply, because it makes me stop for a second and actually think about what I'm doing and how I really don't want to do this aveira. Once I realize that it's not so hard to commit to stay away from these things, at least for right now.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 02:59 #97327

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Bochur14 wrote on 17 Feb 2011 00:56:

... but it's honestly unbelievable how many tzadikim are on this site!!!


Hi! and welcome bocher14

yes you are now considered a GYE tsadik, for doing just that
hold on tight brother we all here need you to win this
come on a great life is awaiting you,


hatslucha tsadik
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 03:08 #97330

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Bochur14 wrote on 17 Feb 2011 02:58:

I know it's ridiculous, but it really is just out of boredom... Thats how I usually get into this mess.
Also, this might sound funny, but it actually makes a big difference when I post something, even if I don't get a reply, because it makes me stop for a second and actually think about what I'm doing and how I really don't want to do this aveira. Once I realize that it's not so hard to commit to stay away from these things, at least for right now.
The RMB"M said many years ago that thoughts of lust, porn, sex, and masturbation (sex with yourself) only become a preoccupation in the mind of a person who is empty of any real derech-Eretz and Chochma - that is, a person with 'no life'.

So get a life, brother.

Forget about recovery and fighting this YH...just get a life.

Love always,

Dov
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 03:27 #97333

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dov wrote on 17 Feb 2011 03:08:

The RMB"M said many years ago that thoughts of lust, porn, sex, and masturbation (sex with yourself) only become a preoccupation in the mind of a person who is empty of any real derech-Eretz and Chochma - that is, a person with 'no life'.

So get a life, brother.

Forget about recovery and fighting this YH...just get a life.

Love always,

Dov


Ummm...
Sorry, but what do you mean by that exactly?
(BTW, I didn't fall in the end.)
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 03:34 #97335

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Dov rebbereber

Sounds like u are hanging out in bardstown

I live in a safik hut safik shack behind the bend off townline road

There is a handwritten street sign. "Woodford path"
I'm either in the garage under the truck

Or pouring drinks in the kretchmer

Cmin and say hello

Well leave the light on for ya
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Feb 2011 03:37 #97336

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...maybe I takkeh just need to visit bardstown and get drunk with one of those animals with chairs stuck on their faces....

Just agreeing with you that boredom is a problem we have. Some people aren't even addicts at all but just keep using the schmutz etc just because it makes them feel good, period. They just need to get a life.

I was just commenting on that.

I do not know who you are, where you are holding. I certainly cannot give you advice. But I can share a thought that you may relate to. If you don't please just forget I ever posted it, no matter.

Shalom!
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."
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