Bochur14 wrote on 17 Feb 2011 02:58:
I know it's ridiculous, but it really is just out of boredom... Thats how I usually get into this mess.
Also, this might sound funny, but it actually makes a big difference when I post something, even if I don't get a reply, because it makes me stop for a second and actually think about what I'm doing and how I really don't want to do this aveira. Once I realize that it's not so hard to commit to stay away from these things, at least for right now.
The RMB"M said many years ago that thoughts of lust, porn, sex, and masturbation (sex with
yourself) only become a preoccupation in the mind of a person who is empty of any real derech-Eretz and Chochma - that is, a person with 'no life'.
So get a life, brother.
Forget about recovery and fighting this YH...just get a life.
Love always,
Dov