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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 13 Oct 2010 12:45 #80371

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Urge to fall???


Check the new thread in WHAT WORKS FOR ME:  getting the urge OUT of your head.

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Oct 2010 03:10 #80594

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Hi, just read a few pages of this thread.  Is this the unofficial page to go when people are sinking?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Oct 2010 03:12 #80595

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Yup! Hi there.  ;D
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Oct 2010 03:13 #80596

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Correction Stuart, this is the "Official" page where we all reach out in time of need
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Oct 2010 03:14 #80597

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Git voch, rebareber
Didn't know u r also so addicted to this thread as I am
Wow,
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Oct 2010 20:21 #80634

i have a very strong urge right now. if i didnt have a filter i know exactly what i would be doing. im listening to (jewish) music right now. sometimes it helps me. but idk how long ill be able to controll myself today. i know that if i need to leave my house or if i have any oppurtunity to look at anything inappropriate or even if it is "appropriate" i would have a hard time controlling myself. im trying to push. just typeing has already helped  me. but chizzuk would be helpful.

p.s. would this post be something to put in the "im about to fall" section?

i just copy pasted this from my thread....i typed it within 10 min ago.

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Oct 2010 20:51 #80637

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Hi all -- just checking in to be part of this choshuve oilam.  We are all in this together, and it is only tzuzamen that we can win this war.  Ish el reiehu yoimar chazak!  Although we can't see or hear each other, we must feel that we are sitting (perhaps dancing, singing, learning...) together as a chaburah.  Everybody here knows on some level the grave dangers of the internet, unlike outside where many act naive as if the problem doesn't exist.  Rabbosai, ain aputropes le'arayos, therefore NOBODY is safe from this enemy.  Personally, I have one of my longest clean streeks going as far back as I can remember, in large part due to GYE and its valiant efforts on behalf of the kedusha of Klal Yisroel.  My bracha to GYE is that you continue to grow leaps and bounds to return kedusha to the masses of yidden in all parts of the globe.  And in this zechus may we merit to see the geulah bb"a! 
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Oct 2010 22:27 #80644

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Hi Soldier.

How's your truck?


Tehor Einayim
Hi!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Oct 2010 22:41 #80645

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Dear HS,

Yearning to hear b'suros tovos!

Filters are essential, but they can only do so much.  Do you have any safeguards in place that would provide serious consequences for falling, such as the Taphsic method?

www.guardyoureyes.org/?p=2451
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Oct 2010 23:04 #80647

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Thank you for sharing hashems solder. I know exactly how you are feeling. I was just in the mall and i noticed a lingerie store. I feel very triggered. I actualy turned around to look at the stupid  manaquen again and again . My gosh
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 17 Oct 2010 23:59 #80650

sorry, the forum wasnt working on my computer for some reason, im still here. im still trucking thank you. its dark out now so not such a problem with going outside. i fell alseep today also, so that took away some time.

are you ok frumfriend? the mall is a very very hard place to keep control.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 18 Oct 2010 04:21 #80661

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It's nice to know I'm in good company: Honest, open people with problems like mine!!
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 18 Oct 2010 13:37 #80668

Frumfiend, your honesty is wonderful.  :)KOT
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 18 Oct 2010 16:05 #80678

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My wife said she was going to order my son some sneakers online, unless I wanted to take him to the mall.  I responded: Go with my son to the mall?  Is it a matter of Pekuach Nefashos? 
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 18 Oct 2010 17:17 #80687

I assume your wife has a sense of humor.?
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