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Re: Im about to FALL!! 08 Sep 2009 21:37 #16732

bardichev	,as we say in israel,ze lo beeg deel. GEVALDIGGGGGGGGGG URI YOU ARE ONE OF THE MOST AMAZING PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM YOU NEED TO "READ" YOUR POSTS YOU MAY INSPIRE .... ...YOURSELF b
	Last Edit: by lustigyid.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2009 18:56 #16966

Shmilu Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	S'iz groise tzures. I feel it coming...
	Last Edit: by Not.a.slave.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2009 19:32 #16975

Lechayim Current streak: 5 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 169 Karma: 2	Thats no pleasure Shimlu its only a temporary enjoyment! You don't want it any more How can you??
	Last Edit: by kris.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2009 19:40 #16980

Someone Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	Are you in trouble Shmilu?? Stay with us ! Update!
	Last Edit: by ninna.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2009 19:47 #16983

Shmilu Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	No, I'm fine. I moved on be"h.
	Last Edit: by dorfman.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2009 19:52 #16984

sunnycheetah84 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1043 Karma: 0	;D ;D ;D ;D GEVALDIGKGKGKGKG
	Rashi, Breishis (10:25) Last Edit: by unsalvageable.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2009 20:05 #16990

Someone Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	Good! Excellent! HaShem made you a strong guy
	Last Edit: by puremysoul.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2009 20:15 #16994

Lechayim Current streak: 5 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 169 Karma: 2	ok B"h Good. Keep it up!!
	Last Edit: by snpoeirn.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2009 21:30 #17034

lamed vavnik OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 1	i am on the brink of falling .i can't fight my triggers.they're evrywhere. i am turning off my comp. and (hopefully going to sleep).i hope i make it till tomorrow.
	Last Edit: by ehanassi.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2009 21:33 #17035

chl	bs"d Lamed vavnik: you're in my prayers. I hope you'll be fine! Shmilu - i am very happy you made it! hatzlacha rabba!
	Last Edit: by Yehuda1.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2009 22:12 #17041

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	lamed vavnik wrote on 09 Sep 2009 21:30: i am on the brink of falling .i can't fight my triggers.they're evrywhere. i am turning off my comp. and (hopefully going to sleep).i hope i make it till tomorrow. I said Tehillim kapitel Kuf Lamed for you, dear Lamed Vavnik. I hope you're doing well.
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: by hopetohashem1.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 09 Sep 2009 22:19 #17043

Dov
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Dear #36,
They may seem like they are everywhere, but we all go through times like that. Thanks for reminding me. I passed the same pretty lady twice yesterday - first at work and later on my way home from work and had to make a phone call to a recovering perv (while I was davening for her) because the second time I passed her, apparently something inside told me she must be destined for me (and dinner will stay warm an extra half hour anyway while I get another good look at her!

).
Oy vei.
Besides, is there lust in your toes? can you think through or write out a short, 5 minute gratitude list for your toes. Maybe Uri can help you write a song about them. There is plenty to sing about regarding our toes, clothes, food, etc., and much gratitude that can help you get out of yourself.
Cuz, my friend, the lust triggers aren't really out there, they are in us. We carry them and keep them.
Love, and a guteh nacht!
Dov

"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Last Edit: by Psalm50one.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 10 Sep 2009 00:27 #17055

Tomim2B	EMERGENCY!! I'M SLIPPING, SLIPPING, SLIPPING, AND I'M ABOUT TO FALL!! IF YOU CAN READ THIS, GET OVER TO GMAIL CHAT AND BUZZ ME AT TOMIM2B@GMAIL.COM QUICK!! ANYONE THERE? I DON'T WANT TO FALL!! HELP!! 2B
	Last Edit: 10 Sep 2009 00:34 by misterh.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 10 Sep 2009 00:49 #17059

habib613

I can't chat with you on gmail.
but i can write to you here.

Tomim, you helped ME so much. in the begining with your "With Hashem's help, __ days clean," and then when you started opening up and writing more.
you never accept stuff at face value, and you questioned a lot of GUE stuff.
NOW QUESTION THE YH!!!!!!
he's a menuval, and he wants you to fall. ask him why??????????????????
and then when he can't answer, tell him to go away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
please stay with us tzaddik

Last Edit: by thenewme49.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 10 Sep 2009 01:01 #17060

Tomim2B

Thank you Habib for responding.

This has all has come crashing down so suddenly and unexpectedly. My mind is numb and I'm extremely vulnerable right now. Everything in me is telling me to just make a choice, do it, and not get depressed later! I don't have the strength at the moment to stand up and question the y"h. And by the way, what does that even mean? He's just doing his job.

I asked Hashem for help. I just feel like my mouth is doing one thing while the rest of my body is being pulled in the opposite direction. Is that asking for help!?

2B

Last Edit: 10 Sep 2009 01:03 by GYEBen.