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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 12 Aug 2009 17:43 #11781

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Ok!

I'm a DrudgeReport addict!

It's only a headline news site but sometimes they have Hollywood news that aint so Ai Yai Yai!

So for today No DrudgeReport BL'N.

Yehi Rotsoin K'Eeli Hikravti Chatos!

E.L.
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 12 Aug 2009 18:36 #11791

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bardichev wrote on 12 Aug 2009 14:55:

MEVAKESH HOLY MASTER (YOUR PIC IS QUITE SPOOKY)

THANKS FOR THE REMOTE "CONTROL"

I WILL BLI NEDER LEAVE MY PHONE IN THE CAR WHEN I GO TO DAVEN

(ONE DAY AT A TIME)
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SPOOKY AS IN OTHER-WORDLY AND MYSTICAL

AT LEAST YOUR PIC IS LOOKING DOWN WARD MY MR.B MUST HAVE A STIFFNECK

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Rebbe Bardichev,

I hope its not untznius to tell you that your posts keep me laughing!

Not bad for a Nu Yorker!
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 12 Aug 2009 18:37 #11792

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I gave up TV and movies in 1984.  It was the Internet that derailed me, beginning in 1997.  (Between those years, I would periodically fail Nisyonos involving other media).
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 12 Aug 2009 18:42 #11794

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As my Rav says, TV has no place in a Frum home, except perhaps for old ladies and invalids (i.e. those whose illness, R"L, requires the distraction).  I would add that there is so much Kosher reading available today that even those people would do well to only use TV as a last resort.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 12 Aug 2009 20:06 #11845

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i do not own a tv

I did not grow up with Tv

My TaaVa for TV

was always very strong

put me in a hotel room

ma yaase haben vilo yechtaa? :'(
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 12 Aug 2009 20:08 #11846

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rebbetzin It is my job to make people laugh

when people laugh they can "shukkle"

themselves out of the doldrums


bp.s.

consider the granny pic the place will be "plotzing"
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 12 Aug 2009 20:16 #11850

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7Up wrote on 12 Aug 2009 09:01:



.."I Bli Neder will give up_____________ in honor of Hashem"


the computer for as long as possible (that would have to include GUE though)


Im not sure I can do this - Im just too addicted to you guys.

How about this instead: Bli Neder I will try refrain from jokes and anything anyone may consider kalus rosh for....as long as you let me. (this is going to hurt I fear)
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 12 Aug 2009 21:46 #11892

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No Chance 7up!
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 13 Aug 2009 02:58 #11925

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Hashem is surely pleased with all the wonderful kabalos that all of you ahve undertaken.

Stick to them my holy brothers and sisters.

The harder it is to do, the more beneficial it is for your Neshama. No pain..No gain, remember?

Chazak V'Ematz!
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 13 Aug 2009 04:50 #11932

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7up, if you leave, who gets to be Mom? :-\
I am proud of myself today because of who I am becoming with progress, not perfection
one day at a time
I am a pickle, and I'll never be a cucumber again. and pickles are YUM!

my thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/6-Women-on-the-way-to-90-Days/248941-Letakains-internet-addiction-journal
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 13 Aug 2009 08:25 #11962

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letakaingirl wrote on 13 Aug 2009 04:50:

7up, if you leave, who gets to be Mom? :-\


Kedusha's yh is willing to step in as Mom occasionally. He even polishes shoes!
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 13 Aug 2009 09:44 #11977

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I think my TV watching is something that's bringing me down. However, I usually don't watch and have pretty much taken it upon myself not to. Being in school, I find that on vacations and during exam time the downtime can be helpful. It can also be harmful, though, especially if I get into a specific show. I think, though, that if I am in a good place anyway, it won't be so bad. Recently, I haven't been in such a good place, been watching a lot of TV, one show in particular and it's been weighing down on me. I grew up in a home with TV. There is still TV there. I am surrounded by many people who watch TV and view it as ok. I agree that I should stay away, but I find it very very challenging. Today I'm going to take my sister out to a movie. She is 13 and it is an innocent movie and a good way to spend time with her. I'm not so sure what else I could do with her outside of the house. I am not interested in taking her shopping. Honestly, I'd also like to see this movie myself... I am going to commit to not watching that TV show that I got hooked on for a day. I have not watched it yet today and will go to sleep tonight without having watched it. I even emailed guard about blocking the site that I get it from, but I never went through with it.

Mevkesh, kol hakavod on this thread, with all the difficulty I find in it, I truly agree with you and have thought this for a long time.

Struggle
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 13 Aug 2009 10:30 #11992

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New day, new mi lashem kabballah: I will B"N not watch movies on the plane. It'll be hard, but what's a plane ride without some extra zechusim and challenges? Instead i'm gonna write. Maybe i'll have some new material when i get back . I'll be thinking of all of you!
I am proud of myself today because of who I am becoming with progress, not perfection
one day at a time
I am a pickle, and I'll never be a cucumber again. and pickles are YUM!

my thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/6-Women-on-the-way-to-90-Days/248941-Letakains-internet-addiction-journal
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 13 Aug 2009 10:34 #11996

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That's a truly amazing kaballah in light of the horrid habit of even charedim and heimishe people atching movies - the chillul hashem..oy
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Re: MI LASHEM EILAY!!! 13 Aug 2009 10:36 #11998

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I wish I can do something, but I can't. First of all, I already wrote that I think it keeps me from falling. Second, I work with special kids and we watch movies all the time. We go out pretty often to theaters too. I can control what to watch , I guess.

I will b"n keep away from any movie that has a bad/no rating.

I'm proud of you L'takein! I always watched on the airplane. Nothin else to do.
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