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90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 28 Jan 2013 04:51 #201463

Because NOTHING can stop me from acting out. Only Hashem through a spiritual experience I had working the 12 steps.

If u want it too, I can help u get there. message me.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 04 Feb 2013 03:24 #201748

Because I'm better than that.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 04 Feb 2013 03:26 #201749

Because I cannot afford the hit to my self-esteem that always follows acting out.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 04 Feb 2013 03:28 #201750

Because I can control panic/anxiety on my own, better than when I act out.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 04 Feb 2013 19:49 #201781

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because i don't want to lose my connection with the Lord

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 04 Feb 2013 21:39 #201795

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There's a reason the eyes have lids to them. To close and turn away. If you don't you'll be stuffing up the heart with garbage.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 08 Feb 2013 18:13 #201992

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There is no problem so big that acting out over it won't make it even bigger...!

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 08 Feb 2013 21:51 #202006

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because it screws up your thinking.your out of touch with hashem so you cant make right decisions-like I did when i pushed my son in a bad shidduch when i was busy acting out

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 14 Feb 2013 08:48 #202204

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Dont do something u will regret after

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 15 Feb 2013 23:59 #202327

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Yakovplsgod wrote:
Dont do something u will regret after
Great advice. But when has that ever stopped anyone from doing this, chaver? Are you trying to help him, or to just tell him something he has already been telling himself for all these years?
Admin put these lines here cuz he likes 'em:
"The heart needs to be broken when will-power is not enough"
"Get off the 18-Wheeler and onto a tricycle!"
"The heck with me, what can I do for you?"
"I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons!"

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 18 Feb 2013 01:16 #202371

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What about some reasons to act out?

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 18 Feb 2013 02:52 #202377

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Ooh, you naughty, naughty boy, yoo...
Admin put these lines here cuz he likes 'em:
"The heart needs to be broken when will-power is not enough"
"Get off the 18-Wheeler and onto a tricycle!"
"The heck with me, what can I do for you?"
"I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons!"

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 21 Feb 2013 12:41 #202596

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#15 Because right when you finish, you realize how bad you feel for giving in...every time.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 21 Feb 2013 16:45 #202606

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AS U FIRST HAVE TO READ 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out WHAT A BORE
avrohom

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 22 Feb 2013 11:38 #202660

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I have a mehalech for this question.

Dont say "NO" to acting out. Because that means your getting involved in a conversation with your desires. Battle etc. Rather Ignore him and refocus your attention on something more productive.

ehh?? eh??? how 'bout 'dem apples?
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