Battleworn that is true, thanks. all the rest thanks too! the truth is im in a dangorous situation in that i can get a computer by myself almost wenever i want, and even though now my schedule is pretty full at the mo and im enjoying it, i know there can easily be a time that ill be bored, depressed, or just slowly start to slip for no  good reason other than i let my guard down. i think not only is porn an addiction, the web itself is an addiction. not that it cant be used for good, of course it can and has been, but the net just gives you the ability to keep you busy for so long, doing absolutely nothing. i cant throw away the key to the room with the comp, its just too much, on the other hand if i dont...
any advice? maybe i could get a sponcer that i will tell b4 when i am going online, for long, and for what point! 

Feel free to contact me privately if you need me to  keep an eye on you.

Chazak V'Ematz!

There is also a feature on some filters where your web visits are recorded and sent
automatically via email to someone else.  This might be a good Eitzah for you also.

See: www.guardureyes.com/GUE/Filters/Accountability.asp