A Member of Duvid Chaim's Phone conference shares his "Excuses List" his addiction uses to FOOL HIM into believing he is still in control of his "lusting": If I am the only one awake at 1 AM, it's not hurting anyone If I fantasize, it stops me from real-life acting ou...

I've been listening to the Charlie and Joe Big Book workshop. It's been great supplementary listening to Duvid Chaim's group, and helps me understand things better. While listening to the chapter, "We agnostics," I was struck with a different idea of Hashgacha Pratis. I ...

I have 41 days sober today. How do I do it? I pray. I rely on G-d, always realizing that lust is more powerful than me and it is only through His strength that I can stay sober. I go to lots of SA meetings. I have a sponsor who I call almost every day. I call others in th...

R' Duvid Chaim, First, thank you. Second, thank you. And of course, third... and onwards. And as you said, the program is not about lust. As a byproduct of getting rid of resentments and fears, lust disappears. I am certainly not cured, but I can sense that the promises o...

1. We admitted we were powerless over lust--that our lives had become unmanageable.2. We came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.3. We made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. 4. We...