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Partner Program Overview

Definition of Terms: A Partner is someone you keep in touch with for chizuk and accountability. A Sponsor is someone who is clean for at least 90 days and wants to help strengthen others, either as a Mitzva or as part of his own recovery (Step 12).  A Sponsee is someone that is looking for a sponsor. 

Once you have joined the program, you will be in our database and the system will offer you the best matches, based on what you're looking for, your gender, marriage status, location and other constraints.

The Pasuk in Mishlei (18:1) says: "Le'taava yevakesh nifrad - Desire seeks isolation". Isolation causes us to go after our Taavah - our lust. The addiction wants us to withdraw into ourselves and disconnect from life. A partner in this struggle can do wonders in helping us reconnect to the world around us and ultimately break free. Going into detail with someone else about what we are feeling, is one of the best ways to let go of the lust when it strikes. And describing what we've done is one of the best ways to get out the shame, guilt and remorse, and move on. A partner or sponsor also introduces the vital element of "accountability" into the equation. As Rav Yochanan Ben Zakai blessed his students, "May your fear of heaven be equal to your fear of man". And his students asked him: "Rebbe, is that all?". And he answered: "Halevai!". (See Tool #11 of the GYE Program to learn more about the value and power of having a partner).

Men's Partner/Sponsor Program

Partners

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1joereedeMarried with children25North AmericaYeshivish
2lovealwaysSingle25North AmericaYeshivish
3yankel32Married with children24North AmericaChassidish
4berelberelMarried with children40North AmericaChassidish
5krMarried with children30North AmericaYeshivish
6keeppureMarried39North AmericaYeshivish
7shia72Married with children33IsraelChassidish
8hopeguy51Single21North AmericaYeshivish
9abshMarried with children21North AmericaChassidish
10pinMarried with children21North AmericaChassidish

Sponsors

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1dms1234Single25North AmericaYeshivish
2my footSingle19IsraelChassidish
3TFLMSMarried with children34North AmericaChassidish
4GrowStrongMarried with children40IsraelModern Orthodox
5shulgoer76Married49North AmericaYeshivish
6SobrietyyizlyfSingle23North AmericaChassidish
7Yparry913Married26North AmericaYeshivish
8sheatestergyeMarried22IsraelYeshivish
9todaysthedayMarried with children28North AmericaYeshivish
10gyemember123Married25North America

Sponsees

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1bobjacobMarried with children23South AfricaYeshivish
2lovealwaysSingle25North AmericaYeshivish
3imtryingtostopSingle19North AmericaYeshivish
4keeppureMarried39North AmericaYeshivish
5bavdcSingle21North AmericaModern Orthodox
6shia72Married with children33IsraelChassidish
7bris.kodeshMarried24United KingdomYeshivish
8abshMarried with children21North AmericaChassidish
9higherjourneySingle23North AmericaModern Orthodox
10mrdeedsSingle21North AmericaModern Orthodox