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Partner Program Overview

Definition of Terms: A Partner is someone you keep in touch with for chizuk and accountability. A Sponsor is someone who is clean for at least 90 days and wants to help strengthen others, either as a Mitzva or as part of his own recovery (Step 12).  A Sponsee is someone that is looking for a sponsor. 

Once you have joined the program, you will be in our database and the system will offer you the best matches, based on what you're looking for, your gender, marriage status, location and other constraints.

The Pasuk in Mishlei (18:1) says: "Le'taava yevakesh nifrad - Desire seeks isolation". Isolation causes us to go after our Taavah - our lust. The addiction wants us to withdraw into ourselves and disconnect from life. A partner in this struggle can do wonders in helping us reconnect to the world around us and ultimately break free. Going into detail with someone else about what we are feeling, is one of the best ways to let go of the lust when it strikes. And describing what we've done is one of the best ways to get out the shame, guilt and remorse, and move on. A partner or sponsor also introduces the vital element of "accountability" into the equation. As Rav Yochanan Ben Zakai blessed his students, "May your fear of heaven be equal to your fear of man". And his students asked him: "Rebbe, is that all?". And he answered: "Halevai!". (See Tool #11 of the GYE Program to learn more about the value and power of having a partner).

Men's Partner/Sponsor Program

Partners

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1mussarman318Married with children46North AmericaYeshivish
2pitkaMarried with children50North AmericaYeshivish
3dracoSingle23EuropeNon-Jewish
4renew123Married50North AmericaYeshivish
5MagnopusMarried29North AmericaModern Orthodox
6artymcgeeSingle23North AmericaYeshivish
7shomerhabris123Single14North AmericaYeshivish
8fighttheyhMarried with children30North AmericaYeshivish
9StoppornSingle22North AmericaYeshivish
10afeelingheartMarried with children37North AmericaYeshivish

Sponsors

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1TFLMSMarried with children34North AmericaChassidish
2shulgoer76Married49North AmericaYeshivish
3SobrietyyizlyfSingle23North AmericaChassidish
4gyejewMarried40IsraelModern Orthodox
5Yparry913Married26North AmericaYeshivish
6sheatestergyeMarried22IsraelYeshivish
7todaysthedayMarried with children28North AmericaYeshivish
8gyemember123Married25North America
9swissMarried with children25EuropeYeshivish
10monkshoodDivorced or Widowed50North AmericaNon-Jewish

Sponsees

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1Chaim2009Married with children33North AmericaChassidish
2pitkaMarried with children50North AmericaYeshivish
3the prophetMarried with children29North AmericaChassidish
4dracoSingle23EuropeNon-Jewish
5george613Married32North AmericaModern Orthodox
6MagnopusMarried29North AmericaModern Orthodox
7artymcgeeSingle23North AmericaYeshivish
8shomerhabris123Single14North AmericaYeshivish
9fighttheyhMarried with children30North AmericaYeshivish
10bottySingle24IsraelUnaffiliated