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Partner Program Overview

Definition of Terms: A Partner is someone you keep in touch with for chizuk and accountability. A Sponsor is someone who is clean for at least 90 days and wants to help strengthen others, either as a Mitzva or as part of his own recovery (Step 12).  A Sponsee is someone that is looking for a sponsor. 

Once you have joined the program, you will be in our database and the system will offer you the best matches, based on what you're looking for, your gender, marriage status, location and other constraints.

The Pasuk in Mishlei (18:1) says: "Le'taava yevakesh nifrad - Desire seeks isolation". Isolation causes us to go after our Taavah - our lust. The addiction wants us to withdraw into ourselves and disconnect from life. A partner in this struggle can do wonders in helping us reconnect to the world around us and ultimately break free. Going into detail with someone else about what we are feeling, is one of the best ways to let go of the lust when it strikes. And describing what we've done is one of the best ways to get out the shame, guilt and remorse, and move on. A partner or sponsor also introduces the vital element of "accountability" into the equation. As Rav Yochanan Ben Zakai blessed his students, "May your fear of heaven be equal to your fear of man". And his students asked him: "Rebbe, is that all?". And he answered: "Halevai!". (See Tool #11 of the GYE Program to learn more about the value and power of having a partner).

Men's Partner/Sponsor Program

Partners

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1Tatzil LeeSingle18IsraelModern Orthodox
2KADOSHKADOSHSingle26North AmericaYeshivish
3benemetDivorced or Widowed47North AmericaUnaffiliated
4slip siding awayMarried with children62IsraelModern Orthodox
5cleangufSingle21North AmericaUnaffiliated
6flycatskillsMarried40North AmericaYeshivish
7On the roadMarried29North AmericaYeshivish
8LIRR52Married26North AmericaModern Orthodox
9torah protectsMarried24North AmericaYeshivish
10Ezra00Single20North AmericaChassidish

Sponsors

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1F.E.Married24North AmericaChassidish
2rabbib@gmail.comMarried38North AmericaYeshivish
3GrowStrongMarried with children41North AmericaModern Orthodox
4humblewarriorMarried with children62North AmericaYeshivish
5dms1234Single25North AmericaYeshivish
6my footSingle19IsraelChassidish
7Moshiach5777Single22North AmericaChassidish
8TFLMSMarried with children34North AmericaChassidish
9shulgoer76Married49North AmericaYeshivish
10SobrietyyizlyfSingle23North AmericaChassidish

Sponsees

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1evedhashem18Single22IsraelModern Orthodox
2KADOSHKADOSHSingle26North AmericaYeshivish
3benemetDivorced or Widowed47North AmericaUnaffiliated
4ChoosingtherightpathSingle21IsraelYeshivish
5slip siding awayMarried with children62IsraelModern Orthodox
6cleangufSingle21North AmericaUnaffiliated
7Akivawsh613Married27North AmericaChassidish
8jazzboMarried24IsraelNon-Jewish
9flycatskillsMarried40North AmericaYeshivish
10torah protectsMarried24North AmericaYeshivish