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Partner Program Overview

Definition of Terms: A Partner is someone you keep in touch with for chizuk and accountability. A Sponsor is someone who is clean for at least 90 days and wants to help strengthen others, either as a Mitzva or as part of his own recovery (Step 12).  A Sponsee is someone that is looking for a sponsor. 

Once you have joined the program, you will be in our database and the system will offer you the best matches, based on what you're looking for, your gender, marriage status, location and other constraints.

The Pasuk in Mishlei (18:1) says: "Le'taava yevakesh nifrad - Desire seeks isolation". Isolation causes us to go after our Taavah - our lust. The addiction wants us to withdraw into ourselves and disconnect from life. A partner in this struggle can do wonders in helping us reconnect to the world around us and ultimately break free. Going into detail with someone else about what we are feeling, is one of the best ways to let go of the lust when it strikes. And describing what we've done is one of the best ways to get out the shame, guilt and remorse, and move on. A partner or sponsor also introduces the vital element of "accountability" into the equation. As Rav Yochanan Ben Zakai blessed his students, "May your fear of heaven be equal to your fear of man". And his students asked him: "Rebbe, is that all?". And he answered: "Halevai!". (See Tool #11 of the GYE Program to learn more about the value and power of having a partner).

Men's Partner/Sponsor Program

Partners

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1NeedtoclearmyheadMarried32North AmericaChassidish
2Yos01Single22EuropeModern Orthodox
3TalmudSingle21North AmericaYeshivish
4dovidcohen18Single16North AmericaYeshivish
5LoTaturuSingle20North AmericaModern Orthodox
6nathanforestMarried32South Africa
7Sm1990Married with children26North AmericaChassidish
8eleigh0708Married with children42United KingdomModern Orthodox
9tryingtobbetterMarried with children35North AmericaChassidish
10samjackSingle25North AmericaYeshivish

Sponsors

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1GrowStrongMarried with children41North AmericaModern Orthodox
2RobFloydMarried with children55IsraelModern Orthodox
3dms1234Single25North AmericaYeshivish
4my footSingle19IsraelChassidish
5Moshiach5777Single22North AmericaChassidish
6TFLMSMarried with children34North AmericaChassidish
7shulgoer76Married49North AmericaYeshivish
8SobrietyyizlyfSingle23North AmericaChassidish
9Yparry913Married26North AmericaYeshivish
10sheatestergyeMarried22IsraelYeshivish

Sponsees

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1NeedtoclearmyheadMarried32North AmericaChassidish
2YosefchaimSingle19North America
3TunrandMarried with children33North America
4Js123Married36North AmericaYeshivish
5dovidcohen18Single16North AmericaYeshivish
6LoTaturuSingle20North AmericaModern Orthodox
7searchingyidMarried54North AmericaChassidish
8eleigh0708Married with children42United KingdomModern Orthodox
9tryingtobbetterMarried with children35North AmericaChassidish
10humblewarriorMarried with children62North AmericaYeshivish