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Partner Program Overview

Definition of Terms: A Partner is someone you keep in touch with for chizuk and accountability. A Sponsor is someone who is clean for at least 90 days and wants to help strengthen others, either as a Mitzva or as part of his own recovery (Step 12).  A Sponsee is someone that is looking for a sponsor. 

Once you have joined the program, you will be in our database and the system will offer you the best matches, based on what you're looking for, your gender, marriage status, location and other constraints.

The Pasuk in Mishlei (18:1) says: "Le'taava yevakesh nifrad - Desire seeks isolation". Isolation causes us to go after our Taavah - our lust. The addiction wants us to withdraw into ourselves and disconnect from life. A partner in this struggle can do wonders in helping us reconnect to the world around us and ultimately break free. Going into detail with someone else about what we are feeling, is one of the best ways to let go of the lust when it strikes. And describing what we've done is one of the best ways to get out the shame, guilt and remorse, and move on. A partner or sponsor also introduces the vital element of "accountability" into the equation. As Rav Yochanan Ben Zakai blessed his students, "May your fear of heaven be equal to your fear of man". And his students asked him: "Rebbe, is that all?". And he answered: "Halevai!". (See Tool #11 of the GYE Program to learn more about the value and power of having a partner).

Men's Partner/Sponsor Program

Partners

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
17694Married with children23North America
2rocksimcha613Married with children39North AmericaYeshivish
3le polSingle22North America
4GrannysmithMarried with children21North AmericaChassidish
5Aaronhopeful@gye.comSingle19North AmericaModern Orthodox
6gertzedekakshay123Single21IsraelNon-Jewish
7MosheSMarried with children23North AmericaYeshivish
8brlife101Married with children25North AmericaModern Orthodox
9NeedhelpjpMarried with children28North AmericaUnaffiliated
10ראש ליSingle19IsraelModern Orthodox

Sponsors

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1TFLMSMarried with children34North AmericaChassidish
2shulgoer76Married49North AmericaYeshivish
3SobrietyyizlyfSingle23North AmericaChassidish
4Yparry913Married26North AmericaYeshivish
5sheatestergyeMarried22IsraelYeshivish
6todaysthedayMarried with children28North AmericaYeshivish
7gyemember123Married25North America
8swissMarried with children25EuropeYeshivish
9monkshoodDivorced or Widowed50North AmericaNon-Jewish
102BfreeMarried with children33North AmericaUnaffiliated

Sponsees

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1le polSingle22North America
2Aaronhopeful@gye.comSingle19North AmericaModern Orthodox
3mikestrugglingMarried with children25IsraelYeshivish
4gertzedekakshay123Single21IsraelNon-Jewish
5anotherbaaltshuvaDivorced or Widowed43North AmericaUnaffiliated
6MosheSMarried with children23North AmericaYeshivish
7ראש ליSingle19IsraelModern Orthodox
8iwillfightMarried21Israel
9YYRSingle23North AmericaUnaffiliated
10GriffSingle25North AmericaUnaffiliated