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Partner Program Overview

Definition of Terms: A Partner is someone you keep in touch with for chizuk and accountability. A Sponsor is someone who is clean for at least 90 days and wants to help strengthen others, either as a Mitzva or as part of his own recovery (Step 12).  A Sponsee is someone that is looking for a sponsor. 

Once you have joined the program, you will be in our database and the system will offer you the best matches, based on what you're looking for, your gender, marriage status, location and other constraints.

The Pasuk in Mishlei (18:1) says: "Le'taava yevakesh nifrad - Desire seeks isolation". Isolation causes us to go after our Taavah - our lust. The addiction wants us to withdraw into ourselves and disconnect from life. A partner in this struggle can do wonders in helping us reconnect to the world around us and ultimately break free. Going into detail with someone else about what we are feeling, is one of the best ways to let go of the lust when it strikes. And describing what we've done is one of the best ways to get out the shame, guilt and remorse, and move on. A partner or sponsor also introduces the vital element of "accountability" into the equation. As Rav Yochanan Ben Zakai blessed his students, "May your fear of heaven be equal to your fear of man". And his students asked him: "Rebbe, is that all?". And he answered: "Halevai!". (See Tool #11 of the GYE Program to learn more about the value and power of having a partner).

Men's Partner/Sponsor Program

Partners

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1jacob123Married29North AmericaChassidish
2jo dogmanSingle15IsraelModern Orthodox
3SomebodySingle17North AmericaYeshivish
4aishkodesh100598Single20FranceYeshivish
5random12345Single16United KingdomYeshivish
6Denverboy20Married36North America
7setmefree613@gmail/comSingle21North AmericaYeshivish
8Najib AtaSingle23North AmericaNon-Jewish
9DeterminedtoWinMarried with children25North AmericaYeshivish
10toughtimeMarried with children26North AmericaChassidish

Sponsors

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1Yaakov S.Married53North America
2danySingle22FranceYeshivish
3gye12345Single23United KingdomYeshivish
4yamimachadimMarried24United KingdomYeshivish
5torah protectsMarried24North AmericaYeshivish
6bearingMarried23AustraliaChassidish
7F.E.Married24North AmericaChassidish
8rabbib@gmail.comMarried38North AmericaYeshivish
9dms1234Single25North AmericaYeshivish
10my footSingle19IsraelChassidish

Sponsees

  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1jo dogmanSingle15IsraelModern Orthodox
2SomebodySingle17North AmericaYeshivish
3setmefree613@gmail/comSingle21North AmericaYeshivish
4DeterminedtoWinMarried with children25North AmericaYeshivish
5FortheloveofTorahMarried28IsraelChassidish
6kikadoshaniSingle24North AmericaChassidish
7timberSingle35North AmericaModern Orthodox
8Dovi2020Married26North AmericaChassidish
9YidyidyidMarried29North America
10Sagewannabe4@gmail.comMarried35North AmericaYeshivish