GYE helps those struggling with inappropriate materials and related behaviors.

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Partner Program Overview

Definition of Terms: A Partner is someone you keep in touch with for chizuk and accountability. A Sponsor is someone who is clean for at least 90 days and wants to help strengthen others, either as a Mitzva or as part of his own recovery (Step 12).  A Sponsee is someone that is looking for a sponsor. 

Once you have joined the program, you will be in our database and the system will offer you the best matches, based on what you're looking for, your gender, marriage status, location and other constraints.

The Pasuk in Mishlei (18:1) says: "Le'taava yevakesh nifrad - Desire seeks isolation". Isolation causes us to go after our Taavah - our lust. The addiction wants us to withdraw into ourselves and disconnect from life. A partner in this struggle can do wonders in helping us reconnect to the world around us and ultimately break free. Going into detail with someone else about what we are feeling, is one of the best ways to let go of the lust when it strikes. And describing what we've done is one of the best ways to get out the shame, guilt and remorse, and move on. A partner or sponsor also introduces the vital element of "accountability" into the equation. As Rav Yochanan Ben Zakai blessed his students, "May your fear of heaven be equal to your fear of man". And his students asked him: "Rebbe, is that all?". And he answered: "Halevai!". (See Tool #11 of the GYE Program to learn more about the value and power of having a partner).

Men's Partner/Sponsor Program


  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1iamstrong8Married23IsraelModern Orthodox
2SufferingServantSingle21North AmericaModern Orthodox
3help1880Married59North AmericaUnaffiliated
4cantorgDivorced or Widowed55IsraelYeshivish
5newMarried21North America
6TrueServantMarried27North AmericaYeshivish
7GottySingle20North AmericaYeshivish
8eli613Single31North AmericaYeshivish
9JdubMarried26North AmericaYeshivish
10Rashi613Single23North AmericaChassidish


  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1Yaakov S.Married53North America
3gye12345Single23United KingdomYeshivish
4yamimachadimMarried24United KingdomYeshivish
5torah protectsMarried24North AmericaYeshivish
7F.E.Married24North AmericaChassidish
8rabbib@gmail.comMarried38North AmericaYeshivish
9humblewarriorMarried with children62North AmericaYeshivish
10dms1234Single25North AmericaYeshivish


  Nickname Marriage status Age Location Background Contact preferences  
1SufferingServantSingle21North AmericaModern Orthodox
2help1880Married59North AmericaUnaffiliated
3ineedtherebbeDivorced or Widowed39United KingdomUnaffiliated
4cantorgDivorced or Widowed55IsraelYeshivish
5newMarried21North America
6hopefullperson23Married36North AmericaChassidish
7shevayipoltzadikMarried with children26North America
8Rashi613Single23North AmericaChassidish
9frumjackMarried48North America
10Struggler86Single18IsraelModern Orthodox