10 Lies Young Men Face
  Breaking Free Chizuk #1277  
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Links: Ten Lies Young Men Face in a Porn Culture
Links: Protect and empower our children.
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Good article, even though wirtten from a Non-Jewish perspective. We particularly liked "Lie #2: Masturbation to porn is normal. It’s not only normal – it is good and healthy for you.

Truth: Normal is sick. If you want to be healthy, you are going to have to learn to be abnormal. Abnormal will need to be the new normal. Like I tell my clients, there are good plumbers and bad plumbers out there. There is a lot of bad information about masturbation that is designed to manipulate the truth. You are going to have to dig to find the good information. Your main sex organ is not your penis. It is your brain. If you train your brain to ejaculate quickly and often to fantasy girl, you are setting yourself up for a miserable wedding night and a failed marriage."

Please exercise discretion as the link will take you to a site outside of GYE network, and even though we vetted it for any objectionable imagery, we take no responsibility for the rest of the content of that website. 

Ten Lies Young Men Face in a Porn Culture

This link will take you to a resource outside of GYE network. We found it to be very helpful for dealing with young children's issues. For the time being, Guard Your Eyes has limited resources for help with this demographic, so we thought this additional help to be valuable.

Site description: "Pornography exposure is inevitable for our children. The best thing we as parents can do is to protect our children by preparing them. Should your child become addicted to pornography, you’ll need to confront the problem and work to repair the damage that has been done. In this section, we provide resources for parents to help you protect, repair, confront and repair your child when dealing with porn exposure."

Protect and empower our children.
Help Wanted

Dear GYE friends:

We are constantly trying to improve our operation to better serve the Jewish people and need some additional helping hands...

Please be in touch with us (help@gye.org.il) if you can help in a professional capacity with any of the following positions/tasks:

- Advertising campaigns manager

- Fundraiser

- Marketing

- Web-development / programming project manager

- Video productions

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- Writers

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"Getting what you want is not nearly as important as giving what you have."
Do you think you may have a porn addiction?

Do you have a problem with obsessive and compulsive porn use? Have you seriously tried the tools on GYE and feel that you are not getting better? Maybe it’s time to consider joining a 12-Step program.

Porn Anonymous (PA)
If you’re compulsively acting-out with pornography and masturbation we suggest you explore joining Porn Anonymous (PA). If you need help deciding whether to join PA, call Michael at 347-699-2368, or email help@pornanonymous.org to schedule a time to talk. For more information visit pornanonymous.org (Hebrew: p-a.org.il / Yiddish: pa-yid.org).

Sexaholics Anonymous (SA)
If your compulsive acting-out has progressed beyond the screen (with other people, paid sexual services, etc.) we suggest you explore joining Sexaholics Anonymous (SA). To figure out if SA is for you, call Dov at 917-414-8205, or email Dov at dov@guardyoureyes.org to schedule a time to talk. For more information visit www.sa.org.

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