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Hld's Profile

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He is looking To be a mentor
  Contact Info   
Region North America
Contact preferences Chat, Email, Text Messaging
Correspondance Frequency Wants to be in touch once in a while
Languages English
  Personal Info  
Age 42
Marital status
Background Modern Orthodox
Children 5
Religious from birth Yes
Additional info I have managed to stop on my own - and I am clean for a long while
Approach to recovery Made the decision to stay away and be rid of this. Made some better decisions about making it harder to access on my phone - installed safe dns, made controls in social media more strict. Wrote down a contract with myself and would have to tell someone if I fall again. Was during chodesh elul and was part of teshuva process. Put it into framework of mesilas yesharim - steps of zehirus - understanding its a problem, zerizus - taking steps to avoid the issue and nekiyus - looking at it as a disgusting thing that wouldnt want to do. Trying to fight it also with not just sur mayra but also through asei tov - learnign and davening and getting into a mindset where this is not interesting to me.
Story Have had my ups and downs over the last 2-3 years after not really struggling for years before that. Tried to stop many times but always had falls. I think this time I am more optimistic because it is not coming from a positive effort to be a better person and get closer to hashem through learning, davening and having a better outlook in life.

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