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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Jan 2010 17:37 #46628

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Kollel Guy wrote on 18 Jan 2010 17:31:

Kedusha wrote on 18 Jan 2010 14:33:

men and women were not allowed to communicate privately even before the recent events.
Wouldn't email addresses being visible cause the same problem?
Yeah, it will, but that can't be GYE's concern...tho it seems to me right now that everyone's emails should be hidden as a matter of policy.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Jan 2010 17:47 #46637

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dov wrote on 18 Jan 2010 17:37:

Kollel Guy wrote on 18 Jan 2010 17:31:

Kedusha wrote on 18 Jan 2010 14:33:

men and women were not allowed to communicate privately even before the recent events.
Wouldn't email addresses being visible cause the same problem?
Yeah, it will, but that can't be GYE's concern...tho it seems to me right now that everyone's emails should be hidden as a matter of policy.
Even now after the separation? Why?
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Jan 2010 17:55 #46647

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KG, leave it alone. This guy/girl tension thing in general is not "their" problem or the "evil" prutzos. It's ours. Really.

And seriously, leave the girls alone. The girls twisted themselves backwards not to cross any lines. It's done. Leave it be.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Jan 2010 17:56 #46648

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7up - I think that KG is implying something about guys, not the girls...if it's anything more than a theoretical argument, anyway.

I don't think anyone has any doubt about how wonderful the special forces are. I know I'm glad they're on my side!
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Jan 2010 17:59 #46651

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silentbattle wrote on 18 Jan 2010 17:56:

7up - I think that KG is implying something about guys, not the girls...if it's anything more than a theoretical argument, anyway.

I don't think anyone has any doubt about how wonderful the special forces are. I know I'm glad they're on my side!
I'm not talking about the guys or the girls. I'm talking about the possibilities of things happening, and how to avoid them.
What girls? What guys? Nobody is bad!! Is there something I'm not getting here?
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Jan 2010 18:01 #46655

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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Jan 2010 18:05 #46657

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Kollel Guy wrote on 18 Jan 2010 17:31:

Kedusha wrote on 18 Jan 2010 14:33:

men and women were not allowed to communicate privately even before the recent events.
Wouldn't email addresses being visible cause the same problem?


And the reason you checked?

Oh, I know it was for our sake. Thanx

Are you also a volunteer tester for K9?
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Jan 2010 18:21 #46663

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All right Chevra, let's all take a deep breath and cool off.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Jan 2010 18:33 #46668

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Hey everybody, did you know that we seperated the men and women's forums recently?

What, you didn't hear?


Yeh, well, it's true.




Ok, now that I announced that... what do you say we  lock this thread?  ;D
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Nov 2020 02:52 #357493

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Momo wrote on 10 Jan 2010 20:34:
I don't like this one bit.

I say throw those who abused the system out.

Why should the rest of us suffer?

This sucks. Some of the best chizuk was from the women. They are naturally more spiritual.

The forum won't be the same anymore.

> > > > > > > > > > >

I'll miss you gals.

:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

I think so too!

Can we please have a fulfillment of the verse “chadesh yamenu k’kedem” and put the system back how it was. 

It’s probably the real culprit for the painfully slow Page load in the last ten years due all this unnecessary online social distancing...
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Nov 2020 03:49 #357498

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Kedusha wrote on 13 Jan 2010 17:07:


I think the next generation of GYE users will wonder how the forum was ever "mixed"...
Difficult as it may be, this transition would have happened eventually, in any event, and is a genuine milestone in GYE's history.  Indeed, it's difficult to imagine GYE expanding to all different segments of Klal Yisrael if it continued to be mixed.


Personally, I relate more to this...
I certainly hear the potential maalos of getting insight from “the other side,”
And I’d be curious to hear what others think..

But for at least myself, I think the negatives outway the positives...
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 18 Nov 2020 05:07 #357506

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As YeshivaGuy wrote. I agree with him. 

Also I agree with the quote. I don't understand how it ever was mixed. Especially regarding these issues. But I guess I had to be there to know. But if it were put up for a vote, I'd vote no. For 2 reasons. Because just like people abused the system last time they can do it again, and I would probably find it triggering conversing with girls.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 25 Dec 2020 06:38 #359723

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Reading this thread in 2020... I can not imagine a GYE with mixed forums. To mean it seems like that would almost defeat the whole purpose. Online mixed gender chats are extremely dangerous. I have been there...many times. Maybe if it was supervised by GYE and everyone has lofty intentions it would be different. But I don't think so.
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