Kunena Site Syndication https://guardyoureyes.com Wed, 02 Jul 2025 19:17:43 +0000 Kunena 1.6 https://guardyoureyes.com/components/com_kunena/template/default/images/icons/rss.png https://guardyoureyes.com/ en-gb https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437970-On-the-way-to-90-Again#437970 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437970-On-the-way-to-90-Again#437970 I have had long periods of sobriety multiple times over the years. I have had even more short periods of sobriety. I have had multiple therapists, literature, and meetings and recovery programs. 
As of right now, I am 2 days without resorting to lust for my problems. 
I have a sponsor and I have a sponsee. 
I lead a SA meeting in my area on Tuesday evenings. I have gone through Steps 1-7 so far with my sponsor. 
With all the things that "I" am doing, "I" have also gotten myself into a lot of messes. I have done a lot in my life to contribute to the problem. But you know who has done all of the contributions of my life to the solution? My Higher Power. God. Elohim. Y'hovah. Hashem. 
I am going to commit to the next 88 days (at least) with all of you included in my journey. I hope to receive your support and prayers. 
Thank you. ]]> On the Way to 90-Days Thu, 26 Jun 2025 02:08:56 +0000 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437970-On-the-way-to-90-Again#437970 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437848-Breaking-free#437848 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437848-Breaking-free#437848 On the Way to 90-Days Tue, 24 Jun 2025 16:53:32 +0000 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437848-Breaking-free#437848 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437742-%D7%9C%D7%90-%D7%AA%D7%AA%D7%95%D7%A8%D7%95-%D7%90%D7%97%D7%A8%D7%99-%D7%9C%D7%91%D7%91%D7%9B%D7%9D-%D7%95%D7%90%D7%97%D7%A8%D7%99-%D7%A2%D7%99%D7%A0%D7%99%D7%9B%D7%9D#437742 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437742-%D7%9C%D7%90-%D7%AA%D7%AA%D7%95%D7%A8%D7%95-%D7%90%D7%97%D7%A8%D7%99-%D7%9C%D7%91%D7%91%D7%9B%D7%9D-%D7%95%D7%90%D7%97%D7%A8%D7%99-%D7%A2%D7%99%D7%A0%D7%99%D7%9B%D7%9D#437742 The fantasizing kills me and lead straight down the slippery slope.

So I would like to try the 1 sec. rule from F2F, NO staring! NO fantasizing!
I've tried it in the past it works like magic! it's hard, sometimes murder, but I think it's worth it especially in light of what they wrote in the GYE newsletter this week, the monster is eating us up LET"S STOP FEEDING IT!!
I am going out now and starting now.

who's with me on it?
would love to hear from you!

P.S. I have found in the past that walking in frum neighborhoods is way harder, because in non frum places you can just train yourself not to look, but in frum areas, your subconscious mind tells you 'there's nothing wrong their dressed ok' and I look, start fantasizing and there goes the slippery slope, what do you all think?
thanks!!]]> On the Way to 90-Days Sun, 22 Jun 2025 13:31:09 +0000 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437742-%D7%9C%D7%90-%D7%AA%D7%AA%D7%95%D7%A8%D7%95-%D7%90%D7%97%D7%A8%D7%99-%D7%9C%D7%91%D7%91%D7%9B%D7%9D-%D7%95%D7%90%D7%97%D7%A8%D7%99-%D7%A2%D7%99%D7%A0%D7%99%D7%9B%D7%9D#437742 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437689-Day-One#437689 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437689-Day-One#437689 On the Way to 90-Days Fri, 20 Jun 2025 07:36:55 +0000 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/437689-Day-One#437689