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Kedusha's Progress
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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Re: Kedusha's Progress 11 Aug 2015 15:29 #261454

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Thank you for that chidush

Re: Kedusha's Progress 11 Aug 2015 16:51 #261463

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yiraishamaim wrote:
Got it - old school. No illustrious chidushuim.

Follow the old tried and true but me steadfast in the commitment.


יש דרך קצרה שהיא ארוכה ודרך ארוכה שהיא קצרה
Have a corny day ... and if you do have other plans, change 'em!!
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we always put our sobriety before our ego -
מוטב שאקרא שוטה כל ימי ואל אהיה רשע שעה אחת לפני המקום

לפעולות אדם בדבר שפתיך אני שמרתי אורחות פריץ. תמוך אשורי במעגלותיך בל נמוטו פעמי. תהלים יז
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 17 Aug 2015 20:49 #261985

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Kedusha wrote:
Thank you, Hman! I hope we'll hear good news from you, and much sooner than 6 years from now!


Thanks for the words of encouragement. I am 3 days away from hitting 30 clean days. I still have work to do with Shimiras Einayim but I am improving with that too... At least I am no longer actively looking for it... I just need to always remember to look away immediately.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Feb 2016 18:41 #278754

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Hey Kedusha,

I was just looking at the wall of honor and noticing how most people eventually stop updating their progress. But you have been so good about going back and updating and i am sure that thats a strong part of why you are where you are today. I can use some of that. Any chizuk from a tried and true fighter?

Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Mar 2016 02:52 #282059

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Dear RealSimcha,

Sorry for the delayed response - I only now noticed your post.

As I've said in the past, I will do whatever it takes to stay clean.  That means, on the one hand, taking things one day at a time.  And using the various tools in the GYE Handbook.  On the other hand, it gives me Chizuk when I reach a milestone.  For example, in just over an hour, I will, b'Ezras Hashem, be 2,500 days clean (it's already displaying in my profile due to the time difference).
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
Last Edit: 22 Mar 2016 02:53 by Kedusha.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Mar 2016 02:56 #282060

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קדוש

Jump

קדוש

jump

קדוש


Kedusha is here let's jump for Joy - and yes I've been following your truck (I'm still coming from טומאה...) and aspire to your sobriety my HOLY brother!!!
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Mar 2016 03:06 #282061

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Hey mr moderator
Your thread is called progress

Ok I gave another friend a karma just before, and wanted to give you an Aliya because מעלין בקדושה!

You can modify only one person's karma every six hours. 
Please wait until this timeout period has passed before modifying any person's karma again.

Can you request progress please!!

You should have 788 karma by now, but only 19?? Where's the math? ? ? ?

Which proves to me that the greatest scoring card isn't karma. But then what is it?







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Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Mar 2016 03:08 #282062

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To Boldly Go where No man Has Gone Before...

Mazel Tov!!!!

Keep on rocketing onwards and upwards!!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

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Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Mar 2016 03:36 #282063

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Kedusha wrote on 22 Mar 2016 02:52:
Dear RealSimcha,

Sorry for the delayed response - I only now noticed your post.

As I've said in the past, I will do whatever it takes to stay clean.  That means, on the one hand, taking things one day at a time.  And using the various tools in the GYE Handbook.  On the other hand, it gives me Chizuk when I reach a milestone.  For example, in just over an hour, I will, b'Ezras Hashem, be 2,500 days clean (it's already displaying in my profile due to the time difference).

I am touched by your response. It is a tremendous inspiration to see your progress. Amazing. Iy"h by us all! 

Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Mar 2016 11:42 #282101

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Thank you, dear Chaveirim, for the warm words and Chizuk!

Boruch Hashem and b'Ezras Hashem, it's now official - 2,500 days clean, one day at a time.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
Last Edit: 22 Mar 2016 11:43 by Kedusha.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Mar 2016 14:22 #282139

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Mazal Tov to GYE's front-runner on the Wall of Honor, currently holding the GYE Record of Honor!!

I bless you that we should all be around still to wish you Mazal Tov in 5,600 days from now (15.3 years) as well!

(Who can figure out what the significance of that will be?) 
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Mar 2016 14:41 #282146

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In an attempt to answer Guard's riddle: 8,100 days (2,500 + 5,600) = 270 months = 90 seasons.

Right now, be"H, my next goals, one day at a time, are 7 years (Lag Ba'Omer - May 26, 2016), and 90 months (October 8, which is Shabbos Shuva).
90 seasons happens not to be on the radar screen at this time!

By the way, regarding why Lag Ba'Omer (as opposed to May 18) is my anniversary date, see my first post for May 6, 2015 https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/5274-Kedushas-Progress?limit=15&start=420#254068
 
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
Last Edit: 22 Mar 2016 15:07 by Kedusha.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Mar 2016 15:13 #282150

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90 seasons = 22.5 years = 8218 days. Close....
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

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Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Mar 2016 16:29 #282164

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Kedusha wrote on 22 Mar 2016 14:41:
In an attempt to answer Guard's riddle: 8,100 days (2,500 + 5,600) = 270 months = 90 seasons.
 

Close but nope. Keep trying, it's simple.
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Mar 2016 16:39 #282168

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To quote Duvid Chaim "Simple, but not easy!"
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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