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Kedusha's Progress
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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Re: Kedusha's Progress 09 Dec 2014 02:58 #244883

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Update: Additional link has been added to previous post.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 11 Dec 2014 20:21 #245047

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Three new topics discussed by Rabbi Belsky have been posted (some require access to the married men's forum). It's a total of five MP3s, and I highly recommend them.

guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/244893-Going-Out-Into-the-World

guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/245025-When-Ones-Wife-Dresses-Immodestly

guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/245020-Relations-When-Shalom-Bayis-is-Lacking
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
Last Edit: 11 Dec 2014 20:23 by Kedusha.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 11 Dec 2014 20:51 #245049

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To hear all the insightful clips from Rabbi Yisroel Belsky, see the link below (most, but not all, require access to the married men's forum).


guardyoureyes.com/forum/15-The-Torah-amp-Chizuk-Approach/245048-Insights-from-Rabbi-Yisroel-Belsky
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 12 Jan 2015 00:25 #246984

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I tired to access the links above, and get a message saying I do not have permission to view these threads. What do I need to do to get access to these threads?

Thank You,
lightness

Re: Kedusha's Progress 12 Jan 2015 01:31 #247001

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The first link works for everyone. The others are for balei batim and ttherefore blocked if you're not married

Re: Kedusha's Progress 06 May 2015 20:08 #254068

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Dear Chaveirim,

Lag Ba'Omer is only hours away. This day is, be"H, a very special milestone for me - six years clean!

I have had amazing Hashgacha regarding my anniversary dates. The day when I was three years clean (May 18, 2012) fell on Yesod shebeYesod (the 41st day of the Omer). I was incredulous at the Hashgacha. As noted back then, according to the Luach, the next time May 18 falls on Yesod shebeYesod is 2050 (5810)! Of course, we hope Moshiach will be here well before then, which might make it come out sooner!

Then, last year, my five-year milestone, fell on Lag BaOmer - a day of great Kedusha and celebration. The Heiliger Guard happened to be in my area for a Chasunah, so I actually spent time with him on this special day. We agreed that, be"H, Lag BaOmer, as opposed to the secular date, would be my anniversary date in future years.

As an added bonus for this year, Guard pointed out to me that the number six represents Yesod! As my dear friend Bardichev (gosh, I miss him!) would say - Gevaldig!

I am deeply grateful to the RBS"O, to Guard, and to the GYE community for helping me reach this point. To those whom I know from the forum and, especially, to those whom I've spoken to or met in person, your friendship means the world to me.

We should all continue to make progress and serve the RBS"O b'Kedusha, one day at a time!

Kedusha
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 06 May 2015 20:16 #254070

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WOW! mazel tov

R' Kedusha, (your name speaks for itself), I do not represent the members here, however, I'm sure I have the Haskomoh from all, we plead to you, please remain a active member and participate on the forums, YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION TO ALL, you are an example of what a person can achieve with willpower and determination!.
הסיבה שיש דברים קשים העוברים עליך היא בגלל שהאדם חושב כי "אני עומד" שהוא מנהל הכל,
ברגע שיתן הכנעה כי השי"ת מנהיג הכל אז כבר אפשר להתמודד עם הקשיים. שמעתי מאדם גדול

If life is a LEMON make LEMONADE

Thank You Hashem for every moment of Sobriety!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 06 May 2015 20:21 #254071

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Thanks for the post.

Very inspiring!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 06 May 2015 20:39 #254073

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Mazel Tov! KOSS!!

BTW May 18 2017 comes out on Gevura Shebyesod!! :D
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...



My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: Kedusha's Progress 06 May 2015 20:54 #254074

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Dear Chaveirim,

I really appreciate your comments and your Chizuk.

Belmont, I hear you. I really do. It's tough for me to strike a balance between spending too much time on the forum and spending the right amount. So, I'll see what I can do.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 06 May 2015 21:04 #254076

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Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Jose ! is Yosef which is Yesod. Hey no joke think about it !

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Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 06 May 2015 21:33 #254082

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Gevura - that's Gevaldig!
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 07 May 2015 11:47 #254101

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I LOVE YOU GUYS.
I was born on the shores of the Caribbean ; Hodu Lashem i live in our Holy Land .
but i only found myself in . . . GYE

Re: Kedusha's Progress 07 May 2015 17:29 #254121

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MAZAL TOV!
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