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Kedusha's Progress
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 10 Jun 2009 21:23 #6055

  • bardichev
kedusha
keep it up you are firing away !!!
h&H
bardichev
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 11 Jun 2009 23:03 #6115

  • bardichev
kedusha zeeskite

so quiet today
are you taking a well deseved bardichever day off?

KIT

KUTGW

h&H
b
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 12 Jun 2009 15:08 #6152

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Boruch Hashem, I'm up to 25 days.

Bardichev, believe it or not, I was too busy yesterday to write any posts!  But thanks for thinking of me! 

By the way, my daughter graduated from high school this week.  I was delighted to be sober/clean and, thus, able to shep Nachas from the event!  One of the Rabbanim who spoke stated very clearly that the Internet is THE challenge of our generation, much as Shmiras Shabbos was THE Nisayon two generations ago.  He urged the young ladies to make sure that their future homes are protected.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 12 Jun 2009 17:17 #6158

  • bardichev
MAZEL TOV!!

YOU WILL SOON BE A HAPPY AND HOLY SHVER AND AN EVEN HAPPIER AND HOLIER ZAYDIE

gut shabbos
bardichev
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 12 Jun 2009 19:03 #6165

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Bardichev,

You always have something nice to say!

Amein!
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 13 Jun 2009 22:02 #6192

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Chart updated!  ;D
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 14 Jun 2009 03:10 #6210

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Thank you, R. Guard.

Boruch Hashem, I'm up to 26 days.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 14 Jun 2009 06:02 #6213

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Kedusha, mazal tov on your daughter's HS graduation!!!

May you have much yiddish nachas and nachas  d"kedusha"
I noticed with my own children that I appreciate all their sweetness and accomplishments much more now when I'm not in the "ltaavuh yvakesh nifrad" mode!!
I enjoy my blessing much more now, without the heavy weight of guilt, without the burden of all the deceit that was part and parcel of my day to day (former) existence.
Rooting 4 U
Your new friend and fellow strugler.
NB
[b]כי שבע יפול צדיק וקם[/b] 
A Tzadik is he who continues to  bounce back after he hits bottom, even a hundred times !!!!!Rav Don Segal Shlita
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 14 Jun 2009 14:58 #6240

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Boruch Hashem, I'm up to 27 days.


Noorah - thank you very much for the kind words, and a hearty Amein to your Berachos.  I agree with your point 100%.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 14 Jun 2009 16:47 #6243

  • bardichev
hazach =27 vhazohar lchai haolamim

kedusha I am so proud you let us know your age group

it is such a gevaldigge chizzuk

oftentimes we think what does the Y"H want from me ? am I going to take this with me to my kever??

the teretz is morai virabboisai ther are yiddin like kedusha who are living proof that it is never tool ate in the game to change course !!!

YOU GOTTA  BE IN IT TO WIN IT!!!!!

bardichev

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Re: Kedusha's Progress 14 Jun 2009 17:54 #6245

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Bardichev's words really resonated with me. The concern that I would take my sins to my grave was what really got me going. It is true that it is never
to late to change and it is also true that it is OK if I fight the YH till the day I die. That will actually be the biggest Zechus. We are not fighting the YH as a process to get through in order to be able to get back to normal life; the fight wih the YH is the essence of our existence and that is what will stand before the Kisay Hakavod on the Yom Hadin Hagadol. I hope that my place will be close to the Tzaddikim who inspire us with there battle with the YH on this site.
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 14 Jun 2009 18:06 #6247

  • bardichev
hoping you are  tzadik yesod olam

hoping wrote on 14 Jun 2009 17:54:

We are not fighting the YH as a process to get through in order to be able to get back to normal life; the fight wih the YH is the essence of our existence



what takes me three days to write you so succinctlty summed up!!!

halevay the heiliger Guard shlitta uses this quote ,it is too good to pass up.

i will embellish on it soon be"H put in the spirit of kol hamosif migaraeya I will leave it now for the gem that it is

please everyone on this site think about this quote... IT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE!!

h&h
bardichev
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 14 Jun 2009 18:50 #6251

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BEAUTIFUL!! THAT NEEDS TO GO INTO A CHIZUK E-MAIL.
Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest.
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 15 Jun 2009 15:07 #6281

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Thank you Hoping for the great insight.  I am gratified that it made its debut on my post.  What an honor!

Bardichev - I'm not sure where I disclosed my age.  It's not in my profile.  Not that it's a big deal.  I guess you mean that, if my daughter graduated from high school, I'm probably over 40 (which is true).

Boruch Hashem, I am up to 28 days.



Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Kedusha's Progress 15 Jun 2009 17:36 #6298

  • bardichev
ah bardichever kup
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