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On the Way to 90-Days

Giving it another shot

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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Re: Giving it another shot 10 Mar 2021 00:59 #365143

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	5! B"H I'm doing well although I haven't exercised yet this week even though I said I would Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 11 Mar 2021 02:01 #365212

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	6!
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 14 Mar 2021 01:38 #365331

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	9! B”H Shabbos was good!
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 04 Apr 2021 13:49 #366322

Striving Yid
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If I may suggest something else; The easiest way to save yourself is to catch yourself before you fall into the lusting hole. The moment you starting to feel bored or sad or whatever it is that starts this cycle, that's the time to catch yourself. Once you go down the path into thinking or looking, it's way harder to control yourself.

Catch yourself when you see that you're getting vulnerable and switch to something positive that you enjoy.

Generally, if you don't have something positive to look forward to daily, then you're constantly struggling. On the other hand, if you can find something else that can give you happiness, you will struggle the first few months to break free of this habit, but you're most likely be able to prevail and finally live in freedom.

Re: Giving it another shot 12 Apr 2021 12:57 #366714

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	3! It's been a long time since I last posted here. I'm recommitting to winning this war and it starts with posting every day again. Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 13 Apr 2021 00:14 #366739

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	4! I had temptations and opportunities to give in to those temptations but I told myself today I'm not falling. Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time! Last Edit: 13 Apr 2021 00:14 by anothershot.

Re: Giving it another shot 15 Apr 2021 04:38 #366853

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	6! Thank you Hashem! Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 26 Apr 2021 00:10 #367406

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	I'm back up to 6 B"H! Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 27 Apr 2021 03:00 #367480

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	7! Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 27 Apr 2021 16:10 #367499

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	I want to look at porn right now BUT I also want to feel good like I have felt the past week that I've been clean so I'll pass
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 27 Apr 2021 16:22 #367501

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Don't give in! You've already made it so far you can keep on going!!

Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.

Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled - if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls.

The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting!

My thread:
Aiming to be better

Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com

Re: Giving it another shot 28 Apr 2021 04:47 #367546

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	8! It felt great to smash the "I'm still clean" button tonight! Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 29 Apr 2021 01:21 #367610

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	9! Thank you Hashem!
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 29 Apr 2021 01:45 #367617

EvedHashem1836
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Keep it coming! Lets see if we can make it to two weeks! (By the ODAAT method)

Re: Giving it another shot 04 May 2021 01:02 #367912

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	14! B”H I made it to 14 days it has been a long time since I was clean this long! I had a big Nisayon this morning but B”H I wasn’t nichshal. hatzlacha to all! anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!