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This is going to be the time I get to 90!
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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 30 Aug 2019 05:20 #343248

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#31 Days!

Gematria "Lo" because I have said "NO" 31 days now. 

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 06 Sep 2019 04:07 #343398

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I am now at 2 Days. I have a lot to say and hopefully one of these days I will have the time to write a longer post. But for now I will say that beis Elul last year I started a streak that lasted 272 DAYS! Elul is definitely a month that is easy to build momentum and Tishrei I also expect will be pretty easy. Iy''h that will give me about a 60 day foundation to build off. Please Hashem help succeed. 
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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 06 Sep 2019 05:10 #343402

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Realestatemogul wrote on 06 Sep 2019 04:07:
I am now at 2 Days. I have a lot to say and hopefully one of these days I will have the time to write a longer post. But for now I will say that beis Elul last year I started a streak that lasted 272 DAYS! Elul is definitely a month that is easy to build momentum and Tishrei I also expect will be pretty easy. Iy''h that will give me about a 60 day foundation to build off. Please Hashem help succeed. 

Don't forget that your 272 day streak is not gone, it will definitely be easier this time around, so all your hard work is not gone and forgotten. And try to focus on the future rather then the past, because by most of us around here the past is aint that great, but the future by many of us is nice and bright.
So keep up your great work, and don't let your past pull down your future!!
Hatzlucha!!!

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 07 Sep 2019 20:59 #343412

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272 days clean is a great achievement.

It proves you have many techniques to stay clean...because you would have been tested and won the tests in that streak.

Take it day by day.

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 12 Oct 2019 23:54 #344168

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#Day0

BH another roughly 30 days in the books. Just had some falls today and back down to beginning, but I started a new program of "kansos/fines." I actually took a scissors to $100....Hopefully, it will give me a better idea of what hashchasa is...

Please Hashem help me continue improving in these areas of Kedusha!

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 13 Oct 2019 00:26 #344169

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Realestatemogul wrote on 12 Oct 2019 23:54:
#Day0

BH another roughly 30 days in the books. Just had some falls today and back down to beginning, but I started a new program of "kansos/fines." I actually took a scissors to $100....Hopefully, it will give me a better idea of what hashchasa is...

Please Hashem help me continue improving in these areas of Kedusha!

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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 13 Oct 2019 00:49 #344170

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I hope the Secret Service isn't reading this...

Continued Hatzlacha!
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And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...



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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 13 Oct 2019 01:04 #344171

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Gevura Shebyesod wrote on 13 Oct 2019 00:49:
I hope the Secret Service isn't reading this...

Continued Hatzlacha!

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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 13 Oct 2019 03:41 #344177

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That seems like a deranged decision. Try more rational approaches.

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 13 Oct 2019 04:53 #344181

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Tzvi5 wrote on 13 Oct 2019 03:41:
That seems like a deranged decision. Try more rational approaches.

If you are trying to help him maybe pick a better choice of words ,  most people typically don't listen when they are told that they are being "deranged "..

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 13 Oct 2019 12:47 #344187

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One should know what to work on,
an oppinon is a personal point of view, not an insult chas veshalom.

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 13 Oct 2019 14:09 #344189

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LOL! First of all it was about $100 but was actually in a different currency....They can try and track my IP Address if they want to figure it out...

Thank you for the feedback, the insults, and the defenses! 

I spoke to someone else on GYE who advised a "knas" for breaking a geder (like using an unfiltered device) is better that for actually falling...

But I also don't understand why everyone is saying it is so extreme...If I were to fall everyone would say, "its okay, dont worry, just get up and keep working on it!" Surely, falling and being motzee zera lvatala is worse than losing $100, no?

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 16 Oct 2019 05:37 #344198

If you'd like to give yourself a heavy knas then perhaps you can give $100 to your enemy, homeless guy on the street or charity organization you hate...
Feel free to pm me, currently a lucky choson which merited to have discovered gye 1.5 years ago which BH totally changed my life from one extreme to the other!

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