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On the Way to 90-Days

This is going to be the time I get to 90!

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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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TOPIC: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 18756 Views

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 17 Jun 2019 02:00 #341768

Realestatemogul OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 139 Karma: 18	#Day35 #BH #NotAlwaysEasy #WeDoWhatWeCan #BeHonest #AskQuestions #StayPositive

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 19 Jun 2019 03:24 #341804

Realestatemogul OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 139 Karma: 18	#Day37 Remember when I was at #Day272? #Humilty

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 21 Jun 2019 11:31 #341865

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 1004 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1845	Yes, and BH you are so much further along today. Maybe there was a break in the streak, but in the rewiring of your brain, you are way ahead today... Continued hatzlocha and growth! You are a great inspiration! You will iyh have one very fortunate wife!
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 25 Jun 2019 03:32 #341922

Realestatemogul OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 139 Karma: 18	#Day43 #ThankYou #Support #TrueFriends #PostiveAttitude #ForwardLooking

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 30 Jun 2019 04:41 #341998

Realestatemogul
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#Day48

So....

I am so not in the mood right now. I just want to stop it all. I want to give in to everything. I can't focus, I can't work, I can't think. I would love to throw on some PJ's and lie in bed for a week and eat ice cream.

FORTUNATELY, I have responsibilities that force me to fight through, to keep trying to stay on track, to make sure I am somewhat productive. These past couple of days have been a battle. BH I am still clean, but I have to keep reminding myself to ignore that voice that says, "just give up, enjoy life, it is so much easier." That voice is cruel, misleading, and want's to see me fail. Instead, I am just going to keep trying to stay focused, keep thinking, and keep working.

Thanks GYE for listening and being my support.

#Support
#Struggles
#Work
#Clean
#IceCream

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 30 Jun 2019 04:57 #341999

Gevura Shebyesod
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Hey, nothin' wrong with a little ice cream once in a while...

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 01 Jul 2019 04:37 #342027

Realestatemogul OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 139 Karma: 18	#Day49 Thank you everyone for reaching out on or off the forums to support me through my (ups and) down! Gevurah - that is one nice ice cream truck! #IceCream #Gevurah #OnMyWayBackUp #IceCream #IceCream #IceCream

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 09 Jul 2019 09:58 #342169

Realestatemogul OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 139 Karma: 18	#Day0 #NufSaid #WillKeepGoing #Humility #ForwardLooking #Sad #Positive #Happy

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 09 Jul 2019 13:19 #342178

Dave M Current streak: 261 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 115 Karma: 5	I'm sorry to hear about your fall. Just know that I'm davaning for your success.

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 09 Jul 2019 23:21 #342193

Onceandforall Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 40 Karma: 4	Hey- fellow day#1. I just read this whole thread. Super inspiring and really good to read this now and to know going in that just because we make it so far we still gotta keep fighting on and it will never be “over”. I hope you are still going- you inspire me.

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 12 Jul 2019 22:01 #342246

stillgoing Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder "LIFE IS ONLY HARD FOR THE FIRST 120 YEARS!" Posts: 1641 Karma: 148	Onceandforall wrote on 09 Jul 2019 23:21: I hope you are still going- you inspire me. Thanks, I am actually stillgoing, but I appreciate it anyway.
	BIG SHOT! Free Choice?! Yirai's Memories STORY TIME :) Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards)

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 14 Jul 2019 05:09 #342258

Realestatemogul OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 139 Karma: 18	stillgoing wrote on 12 Jul 2019 22:01: Onceandforall wrote on 09 Jul 2019 23:21: I hope you are still going- you inspire me. Thanks, I am actually stillgoing, but I appreciate it anyway. #Day5
	Last Edit: 14 Jul 2019 05:10 by Realestatemogul.

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 15 Jul 2019 04:05 #342291

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#Day6

Thank you guidanceseeker for reminding me where I am coming from!

I was motivated and managed to get a 272 day streak. I know I am capable of reaching there again and will commit to coming on here and posting more in order to put my best foot forward.

I also would like to say that BH while I have fallen and been motzei zera l'vatala, Since I started that original 272 streak I have not watched any porn. TYH!

All chizuk is welcome! (Even from you cordnoy…)

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 30 Jul 2019 04:32 #342600

Realestatemogul OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 139 Karma: 18	Day0 Really getting harder for me to come on here and post my falls...It says Sheva Yipol Tzadik V'kom and I'm getting close to the seventh time already and still not near being a tzadik….

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 30 Jul 2019 04:34 #342601

Realestatemogul OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 139 Karma: 18	Also, I got a filter B''h to help with the fight, but then another avenue just came up that I will struggle with. I promised if I look then I will lose $50.