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Re: My Book of Business 02 Nov 2017 01:52 #321875

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No, as a matter of fact, those, sometimes, that spend a lot of time on ratzon and thinkin', never get to action.

B'hatzlachah on takin' action
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Re: My Book of Business 02 Nov 2017 06:50 #321877

Markz wrote on 01 Nov 2017 19:39:

dz703 wrote on 01 Nov 2017 19:28:
WOW WOW
i just finish reading your story and 90 days way to the path ,
looking for the story I'm ממש the same story from beginning till the end.
but why can't I stay clean more than 20 days and I fall, and u can stay clean for 77 days clean? what is the secret?

Shhhhhh
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!


So, get on the bandwagon - start your own personal thread today and keep at it

Ah ha so that is the trick why didn't anyone tell me that sooner now I'll post so much I'll be so busy I won't have time to do anything else
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h


guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: My Book of Business 02 Nov 2017 12:40 #321889

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 02 Nov 2017 06:50:

Markz wrote on 01 Nov 2017 19:39:

dz703 wrote on 01 Nov 2017 19:28:
WOW WOW
i just finish reading your story and 90 days way to the path ,
looking for the story I'm ממש the same story from beginning till the end.
but why can't I stay clean more than 20 days and I fall, and u can stay clean for 77 days clean? what is the secret?

Shhhhhh
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!


So, get on the bandwagon - start your own personal thread today and keep at it

Ah ha so that is the trick why didn't anyone tell me that sooner now I'll post so much I'll be so busy I won't have time to do anything else

4 posts doesn't take up the whole day, and as I said it only works for some. There are many old timers with hundreds of posts and no relief from their porn / mast customs...
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Re: My Book of Business 02 Nov 2017 15:00 #321893

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 02 Nov 2017 06:50:

Markz wrote on 01 Nov 2017 19:39:

dz703 wrote on 01 Nov 2017 19:28:
WOW WOW
i just finish reading your story and 90 days way to the path ,
looking for the story I'm ממש the same story from beginning till the end.
but why can't I stay clean more than 20 days and I fall, and u can stay clean for 77 days clean? what is the secret?

Shhhhhh
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!


So, get on the bandwagon - start your own personal thread today and keep at it

Ah ha so that is the trick why didn't anyone tell me that sooner now I'll post so much I'll be so busy I won't have time to do anything else

yes, for me works posting, many times at high peaks, i started thinking, so now ill act out, and then ill have to admit it on a public forum? no i cant, and that actually stopped me, 
also, posting helps, in case i have an urge, and im posting just for the purpose to fade out the lust....
so, yes, posting helps big time, but its a tool, what works for me, wont work for you..
My email:jacdoja@gmail.com
My threads: my long נסיעה of almost 30 years ~ My Book of Business ~ My Upcoming Dilemma

להטות לבבנו אליו ללכת בכל דרכיו ולשמר מצותיו וחקיו ומשפטיו אשר צוה את אבתינו
כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים

Re: My Book of Business 02 Nov 2017 15:20 #321895

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Day #79

Today is Day #79, the feeling of being clean so long is amazing, and when ever i get some stupid thoughts im getting very upset, why in the world are they still coming to me? why? but i treat them as a great reminder, i shouldn't get comfortable, i still can fall, i have to know it very clear, and live with that, that the YH is a smart cookie, he has his way to get me back on his side, so basically, this small reminders are just to give me the tickle, yes, you are not over yet.... just watch out, and ill try to get around him, and of course it will work, but only with tefila and with the great support at GYE.... Thank You All !!!!!

i started a new Kabalah, everyday before entering to shil, im Mekabel on myself not to talk when the Tsibur are davening, even if im not davening at that minyan, i cant talk when people are davening, i have to go outside, and it should be Lezchus i shouldn't fall from this tefila till the end of the next tefilah... just mentioning here, so you can do it too, and ill have some share in that zchus...

Hay Brother!!!! Remember: One day at a time, why mess up the day when most of the day is almost over, stay positive, think and talk positive then everything will go your way, only with Simcha.

Thank you all!!! Im still clean all because of you, your support, your posts, your messages and what not.. keep it up.

Let’s Stay Strong! Let’s Stay Clean! And let’s be positive and happy, Yes! We can and we will do it! And Together

My email:jacdoja@gmail.com
My threads: my long נסיעה of almost 30 years ~ My Book of Business ~ My Upcoming Dilemma

להטות לבבנו אליו ללכת בכל דרכיו ולשמר מצותיו וחקיו ומשפטיו אשר צוה את אבתינו
כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים

Re: My Book of Business 02 Nov 2017 21:21 #321914

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 02 Nov 2017 06:50:

Markz wrote on 01 Nov 2017 19:39:

dz703 wrote on 01 Nov 2017 19:28:
WOW WOW
i just finish reading your story and 90 days way to the path ,
looking for the story I'm ממש the same story from beginning till the end.
but why can't I stay clean more than 20 days and I fall, and u can stay clean for 77 days clean? what is the secret?

Shhhhhh
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!


So, get on the bandwagon - start your own personal thread today and keep at it

Ah ha so that is the trick why didn't anyone tell me that sooner now I'll post so much I'll be so busy I won't have time to do anything else

Mayen,

You're up to your 999's post! Now don't say no one told you sooner. Come on, give it all it takes!

Thank you for contributing so much to this wonderful place! ANd continued hatzlacha on whatever you do!

Re: My Book of Business 02 Nov 2017 21:27 #321917

Thanks for noticing

I do not mean to sound stiff or anything but most of those posts are hogwash and garbage 
just someone stumbling around and not really doing the things he should be doing
But if there are those benefiting then as the saying goes 
One mans garbage is an others treasure  
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h


guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: My Book of Business 03 Nov 2017 09:18 #321942

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ok so find your treasures 
you r being to hard on yourself man

like a bridge over troubled waters


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Re: My Book of Business 03 Nov 2017 10:58 #321948

tzomah wrote on 03 Nov 2017 09:18:
ok so find your treasures 
you r being to hard on yourself man

Tell me about it     
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h


guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: My Book of Business 03 Nov 2017 15:44 #321964

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 03 Nov 2017 10:58:

tzomah wrote on 03 Nov 2017 09:18:
ok so find your treasures 
you r being to hard on yourself man

Tell me about it     

My fellow friends, please dont fight.... and be happy..
Thank You
My email:jacdoja@gmail.com
My threads: my long נסיעה of almost 30 years ~ My Book of Business ~ My Upcoming Dilemma

להטות לבבנו אליו ללכת בכל דרכיו ולשמר מצותיו וחקיו ומשפטיו אשר צוה את אבתינו
כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים

Re: My Book of Business 03 Nov 2017 15:46 #321966

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Day #80

Today is #80... who would believe that.... its day #80.... if i can, then you can too.. no need to explain.. talks by it self, its a milestone.... hashem i love you, without you i would never be here.
Thank You!

Hay Brother!!!! Remember: One day at a time, why mess up the day when most of the day is almost over, stay positive, think and talk positive then everything will go your way, only with Simcha.

Thank you all!!! Im still clean all because of you, your support, your posts, your messages and what not.. keep it up.

Let’s Stay Strong! Let’s Stay Clean! And let’s be positive and happy, Yes! We can and we will do it! And Together

My email:jacdoja@gmail.com
My threads: my long נסיעה of almost 30 years ~ My Book of Business ~ My Upcoming Dilemma

להטות לבבנו אליו ללכת בכל דרכיו ולשמר מצותיו וחקיו ומשפטיו אשר צוה את אבתינו
כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים

Re: My Book of Business 04 Nov 2017 17:38 #321982

Shivisi_Hashem wrote on 03 Nov 2017 15:44:

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 03 Nov 2017 10:58:

tzomah wrote on 03 Nov 2017 09:18:
ok so find your treasures 
you r being to hard on yourself man

Tell me about it     

My fellow friends, please dont fight.... and be happy..
Thank You

1) Happy to be friends
2) This is the way friends help each other be honest with oneself yes it is hard but it works
3) Amen
4) Your welcome
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h


guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: My Book of Business 07 Nov 2017 16:56 #322105

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Day #84 - Just one week left to reach day #90

today is Day #84, and guess what, i have left just one week to reach day # 90.... Yah Yah!!!!  will i make it??? hope that i will, but, hay, you may never know.... (in scared... please pray for me... i really want to make it) everything might happen, but ill tell you all, its tough, one day tougher then another.... as of today, porn is history, i dont even have any Taveh for it, im porn clean for 215 days, as of today my biggest struggle is on the street, looking on woman, its basically a daily issue, and im doing BH fine, but still they are in my way.... but i wouldn't say that i wouldn't enjoy looking at them... but thats my problem, and i have to work on myself, and thats exactly what im doing. and no, it wont go away, the street and the woman are here to stay, and me, going on the street is also here to stay, so i should better work on myself, and i will......

Hay Brother!!!! Remember: One day at a time, why mess up the day when most of the day is almost over, stay positive, think and talk positive then everything will go your way, only with Simcha.

Thank you all!!! Im still clean all because of you, your support, your posts, your messages and what not.. keep it up.

Let’s Stay Strong! Let’s Stay Clean! And let’s be positive and happy, Yes! We can and we will do it! And Together

My email:jacdoja@gmail.com
My threads: my long נסיעה of almost 30 years ~ My Book of Business ~ My Upcoming Dilemma

להטות לבבנו אליו ללכת בכל דרכיו ולשמר מצותיו וחקיו ומשפטיו אשר צוה את אבתינו
כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים

Re: My Book of Business 07 Nov 2017 23:33 #322122

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Tell me brother, what is the view from so far up? I can hardly see you anymore. Hold me a place so I have where to sit once I catch up on you. 

as of today, porn is history, i dont even have any Taveh for it, im porn clean for 215 days,​


Hurray!!!!! But don't let your past successes fool you! Keep your guard up!

Cheers!

Re: My Book of Business 08 Nov 2017 08:28 #322148

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Step 0 is stopping
Step 1 -12 is to start living.
I joined SA after I had 90 days because stopping wasn't enough for me, I wanted to start living.
I was in a really good place when I joined SA but it is incomparable to the life I have now with the fellowship and the steps and a real sponsor.
For me recovery is about growing up and I am so grateful that I am able to grow daily.
Looking forwards to your L'chaim in a week but remember this is just the beginning of the journey.
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