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Re: Bb0212's road... 22 Feb 2017 10:27 #306465

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bb0212 wrote on 21 Feb 2017 16:28:
I'm part of a team. Can't give up. Otherwise I would have long ago. So I keep getting up, till I'm KO'd. My goal here is to not get KO'd. I need to change my strategy, because he's gonna knock me out if I keep slipping.

I was thinking more along these lines
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Re: Bb0212's road... 22 Feb 2017 12:43 #306476

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My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.
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Re: Bb0212's road... 22 Feb 2017 12:44 #306477

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So that's how you win?

I cannot beat the YH by myself, he's way too strong. But, the same way a sports fan feels good when his team wins, (we won!) I feel good when my team (Team bb) wins. Not sure if that goes against Dov's policy.
My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.

Re: Bb0212's road... 22 Feb 2017 12:45 #306478

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My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.
Last Edit: 22 Feb 2017 13:23 by bb0212.

Re: Bb0212's road... 22 Feb 2017 12:46 #306479

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bb0212 wrote on 22 Feb 2017 06:20:

cordnoy wrote on 21 Feb 2017 16:49:
Sorry to hear about your boxin' matches.

Have you tried one of the phone conferencesI? They generally speak to the inside of theI person and change, rather than a simple superficial bandaid?

B'hatzlachah


Didn't try the phone conferences yet, not quite ready for that right now. It'll be another stress in my life & I'm trying to figure out how to deal with the stress I currently have. However I really appreciate your response Cords. (Aren't you on the dl now?)

So, I don't know the rules of boxing, but I know that you're not allowed to put your opponent in a chokehold. That doesn't really matter to me, because I do what I gotta do. My opponent doesn't follow rules. I won this round, got him in a chokehold.
 fixed the filter problems on my phone and laptop. Ready to keep fighting! Next round...

My pleasure.
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Goin' with your mashal, the y"h has no limit; he can fight more than 15 rounds, many more.

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Re: Bb0212's road... 22 Feb 2017 13:28 #306481

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cordnoy wrote on 22 Feb 2017 12:46:

bb0212 wrote on 22 Feb 2017 06:20:
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My pleasure.
 hatzlachah on the stress.
Goin' with your mashal, the y"h has no limit; he can fight more than 15 rounds, many more.

B'hatzlachah

Yup, fight of a lifetime. We win some, we lose some.

Amen!
My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.

Re: Bb0212's road... 22 Feb 2017 13:49 #306483

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bb0212 wrote on 22 Feb 2017 13:28:

cordnoy wrote on 22 Feb 2017 12:46:

bb0212 wrote on 22 Feb 2017 06:20:
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!

My pleasure.
 hatzlachah on the stress.
Goin' with your mashal, the y"h has no limit; he can fight more than 15 rounds, many more.

B'hatzlachah

Yup, fight of a lifetime. We win some, we lose some.

Amen!

Wrong!

At least for me (and others have told me so as well).
I am interested in sanity.
Fightin' for lifetime doesn't interest me one bit.

That's why now I am not fightin'.
I am not in the rin'.
Heck, I'm not even in the Garden.

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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."

Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: Bb0212's road... 22 Feb 2017 13:51 #306484

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bb0212 wrote on 22 Feb 2017 13:28:

cordnoy wrote on 22 Feb 2017 12:46:

bb0212 wrote on 22 Feb 2017 06:20:
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My pleasure.
 hatzlachah on the stress.
Goin' with your mashal, the y"h has no limit; he can fight more than 15 rounds, many more.

B'hatzlachah

Yup, fight of a lifetime. We win some, we lose some.

Amen!

Winsome loosesome is a loose loose situation
Its for bloggers on YWN
We can do better on gye

All cord's was saying was - whatever
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!

you choose, it should be

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Re: Bb0212's road... 22 Feb 2017 15:09 #306493

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Moral of the story:

Don't fight. Surrender! Seek sanity!
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Re: Bb0212's road... 23 Feb 2017 06:25 #306597

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Singularity wrote on 22 Feb 2017 15:09:
Moral of the story:

Don't fight. Surrender! Seek sanity!

We have different stories here. If somebody who doesn't box goes into a ring, he will be destroyed. He can accept that he doesn't box and go do something else. In my story, I'm a boxer in a ring. I don't intend on surrendering, because my circumstances are different.
"Win some lose some" works for me, because in the big picture, my goal is not to have a perfect record as a boxer.
Heck, I may have a losing record, but look at a baseball player who "fails" in 60% of his at bats, but gets a base hit in 40%. He would be considered the best baseball player to have hit in all of baseball over the last 60+ years, a tremendous success. 
 So too, each of my successes are worth so much more than each failure.
My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.

Re: Bb0212's road... 23 Feb 2017 07:20 #306602

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So you don't want to be sane?
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Re: Bb0212's road... 23 Feb 2017 08:12 #306608

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bb0212 wrote on 22 Feb 2017 06:20:

cordnoy wrote on 21 Feb 2017 16:49:
Have you tried one of the phone conferencesI? They generally speak to the inside of theI person and change, rather than a simple superficial bandaid?

It'll be another stress in my life & I'm trying to figure out how to deal with the stress I currently have.


Back in the 80s there was a businessman furiously typing on his typewriter, drowning in work.

Along comes a salesman to try to sell him the latest thing - a personal computer.

Said the businessman "I can't talk to you now, can't you see how much paperwork I have to get through!"
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Re: Bb0212's road... 24 Feb 2017 03:52 #306684

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Watson wrote on 23 Feb 2017 08:12:

bb0212 wrote on 22 Feb 2017 06:20:

cordnoy wrote on 21 Feb 2017 16:49:
Have you tried one of the phone conferencesI? They generally speak to the inside of theI person and change, rather than a simple superficial bandaid?


It'll be another stress in my life & I'm trying to figure out how to deal with the stress I currently have.



Back in the 80s there was a businessman furiously typing on his typewriter, drowning in work.

Along comes a salesman to try to sell him the latest thing - a personal computer.

Said the businessman "I can't talk to you now, can't you see how much paperwork I have to get through!"

Nice story, I got your point. My point is really simple: There are many helpful tools that may be of use someday for me. But right now it can hurt more than help. 

The salesman selling the computer said, "Get this, it's gonna make your work much more efficient." The businessman replied "That's great, one day I may buy it. Right now I have no way of getting the money to buy it."
Here's where some say vhameivin yavin
In either case, please don't push that on me anymore. Thank you!
My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.

Re: Bb0212's road... 24 Feb 2017 03:53 #306686

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Singularity wrote on 23 Feb 2017 07:20:
So you don't want to be sane?

Shiv'im panim l'sanity.
My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.

Re: Bb0212's road... 24 Feb 2017 08:34 #306708

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bb0212 wrote on 24 Feb 2017 03:53:

Singularity wrote on 23 Feb 2017 07:20:
So you don't want to be sane?

Shiv'im panim l'sanity.

That'd just make me more insane :-P
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