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enough is enough!
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TOPIC: enough is enough! 14715 Views

Re: enough is enough! 01 Aug 2019 03:39 #342634

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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 31 Jul 2019 21:57#342630
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Realestatemogul wrote on 30 Jul 2019 04:34:Also, I got a filter B''h to help with the fight, but then another avenue just came up that I will struggle with. I promised if I look then I will lose $50. I've spent so much money threatening myself. Actually I probably didn't loose that much since I didn't always have the guts to pay up... good luck on the new challenge. My personal moto that I (TRY!!!) to keep is, keep on going & keep on trying, but don't keep on doing the same old thing and hoping for different results.
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Stillgoing's words of wisdom is really resonating with me - I know that I need to take a bigger step than what i've done until now and iy'H I will, its just difficult for some reason ... maybe Mr YH , or maybe fear of the unknown and or change regardless I think I must if I want to honestly say that Im working on getting better.
Last Edit: 01 Aug 2019 03:40 by i-man.

Re: enough is enough! 13 Aug 2019 00:27 #342819

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I'm 2 weeks clean B'H with His help,
right now im stressed out for certain reasons and this type of stress is a big trigger for me , I know however that acting out is not the solution and will only cause bigger problems so IY'H I will say NO to lusting tonight. 

Thanks for listening
Last Edit: 13 Aug 2019 03:13 by i-man.

Re: enough is enough! 13 Aug 2019 12:47 #342825

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Hazlacha.  We are all behind you. 

Re: enough is enough! 13 Aug 2019 13:15 #342827

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I followed through and did not turn to acting out as an answer, I am in the process (long term) of learning how to deal with these situations that result in me going after lust.

Re: enough is enough! 13 Aug 2019 21:52 #342837

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Wel done i man.

This is the key...you get the urge..but you do not have to act on it.

You replace it with positive action.

Re: enough is enough! 15 Aug 2019 03:20 #342865

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A few triggers tonight ...
But I know that opening the door to lust will trap me in a cage of misery...
if you would tell mme"if you look at porn you will have to go to the Dentist , dmv ,and any other awful government agency of choice " I would probably find something better to do - Tonight I choose  something better to do than spiral into a temporary indulgence of insanity. 
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