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Yaakov's Ladder
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 07 Oct 2013 15:30 #220412

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Hey Nitz, you have any tissues left? I'm getting a little emotional....:'(
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 07 Oct 2013 15:48 #220415

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You're worth to me much more than your shver will ever be. And that is the pure and unadulterated truth.


i second that!

(i have a couple but they wont last long)
i used to look back all the time saying "oh no! what have i done! Hashem help me erase the past." and i never heard a response.
finally i started looking forward saying "Hashem i'm leaving the past to you and i'm forgetting all about it. help me have a good future. help me from here and on be the person You want me to be." and that's where i realized Hashem had been waiting to help me all along

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 07 Oct 2013 20:19 #220431

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I'm not in OINK (yet) but I still love you!!!!
אלא יש לו לייחד כל מעשיו לשמו הגדול לבד, ולא ישתף עמו דבר אחר
That's the goal. The key to everything. Working on it, bs"d.

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 07 Oct 2013 22:06 #220440

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this illustrates the point that:
Pidaini wrote:
THE EAGLE IS STILL FLYING STRONG!!!!

keep up your good work
keep flying strong
full afterburner!
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
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The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 07 Oct 2013 22:55 #220443

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tehillimzugger wrote:
You're worth to me much more than your shver will ever be. And that is the pure and unadulterated truth.

Is that even possible!?!?

i know, i know...
tehillimzugger wrote:
Luz shoin oop his shver Lizzie!!!
Life is Like a Bicycle: If its easy, you're going downhill
Hashem, If I can't have what I want, then please teach me to want what I have -Unknown (and if u know who it was please inform me)
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I will not act out today, I will tomorrow. Maybe when I get to tomorrow, it will again be 'today'

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 08 Oct 2013 01:18 #220448

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Lizhensk wrote:

Is that even possible!?!?

LOL!
You do realize that I used this particular wording just to bait you- you fell for it!

P.S. L'achar meiah v'esrim and they decide to give yerusha to son-in-laws- maybe then he's going to be worth to me more than my relationship with Yankel...
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 08 Oct 2013 02:06 #220453

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אלא יש לו לייחד כל מעשיו לשמו הגדול לבד, ולא ישתף עמו דבר אחר
That's the goal. The key to everything. Working on it, bs"d.

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 08 Oct 2013 13:33 #220480

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Hashem, please tell me where I am supposed to look if I can't even look at the lower calf of the gardner because he has a tatoo of a topless....!!
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 08 Oct 2013 14:59 #220487

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That depends, is the gardener topless also?
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Only when we make our real lives sweeter than our fantasies will we reap the emotional rewards, the happiness of recovery. - AlexEliezer
Focus on making the right choices as they come up. - Skeptical
When I start to literally accept G-d's Will as guiding my life today, things start to change. - Dov

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 08 Oct 2013 15:01 #220488

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no HE was bottomless (or half-bottomless)
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 08 Oct 2013 19:05 #220511

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in such circumstances you are meant to fill a flamethrower with a mix of peanut butter and indelible ink and by mistake saturate the garden(er) with it. oops. thank you
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
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Give, Forgive
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The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 08 Oct 2013 19:38 #220516

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can you send me one of those with all the ingredients in a missile please.

I hear that Iran has some extras.
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 08 Oct 2013 19:49 #220517

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if the missile lands in the garden it might upset the gladiolas
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 08 Oct 2013 20:01 #220518

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My shver could afford new ones, I think.
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 08 Oct 2013 20:37 #220521

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Pidaini wrote:
My shver could afford new ones, I think.

You think!?!?!?

Hi TZ!!!
Life is Like a Bicycle: If its easy, you're going downhill
Hashem, If I can't have what I want, then please teach me to want what I have -Unknown (and if u know who it was please inform me)
(1+2)x4=3
There is NOTHING wrong with feeling pain -My Sponsor
I will not act out today, I will tomorrow. Maybe when I get to tomorrow, it will again be 'today'
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