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Re: hello everybody! 03 Feb 2012 10:07 #132314

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TehillimZugger wrote on 03 Feb 2012 09:21:

"Esti, was Suri sitting next to you?"
"Ruchi don't even say her name, I'm going to kill that girl one day, who gave her the right to be soooooooooo thin and never cheat on her diet? How do you know she was sitting next to me?"



Please kill Suri for me or tell me she is really ugly. She is such a trigger for me, all thin and slim even though she is only fiction.


This post is not entirely serious but it is not entirely a joke either. :-\
The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars.
If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look.
I can guard my eyes.
I want to guard my eyes.
I do guard my eyes.
Why do I say these four lines?
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Re: hello everybody! 03 Feb 2012 12:02 #132318

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Blind Beggar wrote on 03 Feb 2012 10:07:



TehillimZugger wrote on 03 Feb 2012 09:21:

"Esti, was Suri sitting next to you?"
"Ruchi don't even say her name, I'm going to kill that girl one day, who gave her the right to be soooooooooo thin and never cheat on her diet? How do you know she was sitting next to me?"



Please kill Suri for me or tell me she is really ugly. She is such a trigger for me, all thin and slim even though she is only fiction.


This post is not entirely serious but it is not entirely a joke either. :-\

first of all i never said she's "all thin and slim"
second of all once you quoted me i can't change it anyway
third of all [shhhhhh] she's very pretty  ;D
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: hello everybody! 03 Feb 2012 15:25 #132339

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I like - TZ.  I think that's what dov means when he says that the stuggle with lust is also toxic.  When we are preoccupied with fighting it - we lose  :-[.
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Re: hello everybody! 03 Feb 2012 15:48 #132344

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so TZ are we gonna get a serialized novel about the perils of chocolatey stuff and the ozone layer?
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
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Give, Forgive
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The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
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Re: hello everybody! 03 Feb 2012 17:06 #132356

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ZemirosShabbos wrote on 03 Feb 2012 15:48:

so TZ are we gonna get a serialized novel about the perils of chocolatey stuff and the ozone layer?

not to mention teenage faces .
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Re: hello everybody! 06 Feb 2012 16:47 #132450

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Official Post:
Yesterday I had my last fall.

I was going to post this whole poetry thing here expressing my feelings etc., but b"h today i had an amazing day, regardless of yesterday, and tonight we're having chabura and tomorrow i want to get up early, so i think i'm basically covered until shabbos [and i'm planning to go away for shabbos so that should break the rut], also this time i gathered enough strength before it happened to call someone, so even though it didn't help, it's safe to assume that next time i'll be readier to reach out....

btw i changed my signature line.
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: hello everybody! 06 Feb 2012 21:04 #132485

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Keep on guitaring!

kol hakavod on reaching out
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
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Give, Forgive
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The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: hello everybody! 07 Feb 2012 17:08 #132561

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Hey TZ, don't wait until you are slipping down that slippery slope to reach out.  Take some preventative action before you start slipping.
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Re: hello everybody! 07 Feb 2012 19:41 #132579

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Re: hello everybody! 08 Feb 2012 10:55 #132612

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?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: hello everybody! 08 Feb 2012 14:09 #132621

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Poem has since been published was edited for reasons of anonymity
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: hello everybody! 08 Feb 2012 14:23 #132622

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You made me  ...
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends
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Re: hello everybody! 09 Feb 2012 17:44 #132690

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beautiful!!!

i should write you more often...
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: hello everybody! 09 Feb 2012 17:50 #132692

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TehillimZugger wrote on 08 Feb 2012 10:55:


I've always seen it quoted here with "gam". I see now that the Posuk in Micha is "Ki Nofalti, Komti". Is there a second posuk also?

If not I'll have to change my slogan.... ??? :-\
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends
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Re: hello everybody! 09 Feb 2012 18:00 #132694

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ZemirosShabbos wrote on 09 Feb 2012 17:44:

beautiful!!!

i should write you more often...


yeah you should
btw when did you stop chatting with me long enough to post this?
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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