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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 13 Jul 2017 04:29 #317137

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Karmaniac:
  One who is obsessed with motor vehicles, and other's ratings of them. 

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!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...



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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 13 Jul 2017 05:24 #317139

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JHF- Just Having Fun  Joyous Happy and Free

BWR- Bad Word Removed
as in what the BWR do you mean
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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 13 Jul 2017 19:21 #317160

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mikestruggling wrote on 13 Jul 2017 05:24:
JHF- Just Having Fun  Joyous Happy and Free

BWR- Bad Word Removed
as in what the BWR do you mean

I like the BWR one.
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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 17 Jul 2017 03:42 #317299

mikestruggling wrote on 13 Jul 2017 05:24:
JHF- Just Having Fun  Joyous Happy and Free

BWR- Bad Word Removed
as in what the BWR do you mean

um i believe that a certain turtle monkey may have originally come up with BWR 
i used to look back all the time saying "oh no! what have i done! Hashem help me erase the past." and i never heard a response.
finally i started looking forward saying "Hashem i'm leaving the past to you and i'm forgetting all about it. help me have a good future. help me from here and on be the person You want me to be." and that's where i realized Hashem had been waiting to help me all along

Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 17 Jul 2017 04:12 #317300

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Gevura Shebyesod wrote on 13 Jul 2017 04:29:
Karmaniac:
  One who is obsessed with motor vehicles, and other's ratings of them. 

Hat tip: Shlomo24

Ahah. Apparently I was ignorant all this time. Like a fool, I thought that it meant the following:

Karmaniac:
  One who is obsessed with motor vehicles monster trucks, and the ratings of them their respective drivers. 
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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 31 Aug 2017 15:42 #319581

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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 03 Sep 2017 06:31 #319643

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Mesayin wrote on 31 Aug 2017 15:42:
LUST:
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Living Underwhelmingly, Simply Tripping
My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.

Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 04 Sep 2017 14:22 #319716

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bb0212 wrote on 03 Sep 2017 06:31:

Mesayin wrote on 31 Aug 2017 15:42:
LUST:
 Lazy Underperformed Slow Trucking

Living Underwhelmingly, Simply Tripping

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Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up.

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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 04 Sep 2017 15:10 #319718

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Mesayin wrote on 04 Sep 2017 14:22:

bb0212 wrote on 03 Sep 2017 06:31:

Mesayin wrote on 31 Aug 2017 15:42:
LUST:
 Lazy Underperformed Slow Trucking

Living Underwhelmingly, Simply Tripping

MAIMI
​ My Acronym Is More  Innovative
                                    Inspiring
                                    Idiotic

I don't mean to be idiotic, but in my book

LUST = LUST
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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 04 Sep 2017 16:49 #319721

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Markz wrote on 04 Sep 2017 15:10:

Mesayin wrote on 04 Sep 2017 14:22:

bb0212 wrote on 03 Sep 2017 06:31:

Mesayin wrote on 31 Aug 2017 15:42:
LUST:
 Lazy Underperformed Slow Trucking

Living Underwhelmingly, Simply Tripping

MAIMI
​ My Acronym Is More  Innovative
                                    Inspiring
                                    Idiotic

I don't mean to be idiotic, but in my book

LUST = LUST

MAIMI
 Markz Ain't Idiotic, Mesayin Is

What's the name of your book?
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Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up.

Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly.

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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 06 Sep 2017 11:04 #319868

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"Rotf" is "Revenge of the Fallen" a transformers movie. Or is "Rolling on the floor" minus the laughing part. 

Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 06 Sep 2017 15:27 #319885

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LeogoingShmiras wrote on 06 Sep 2017 11:04:
"Rotf" is "Revenge of the Fallen" a transformers movie. Or is "Rolling on the floor" minus the laughing part. 

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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 19 Sep 2017 05:36 #320437

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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 17 Oct 2017 03:27 #321170

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The "Three-Second Rule” (tool #3)

If we see something inappropriate, we can implement the "three-second rule." Doing so involves three steps: alert, avert, and affirm. The first step is to realize that we're seeing something inappropriate. That's the "alert" stage, and it may take a second or two. The second step is to close our eyes or look away. That's the "avert" stage. These two steps should take place within [about] three seconds. The third step is to give yourself a mental "pat on the back" thinking something like, "I saw that by mistake, and I quickly looked away. I'm still clean and, G-d willing, I'm going to build on that, one day at a time." That's the "affirm" stage.
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Re: GYE GLOSSARY OF TERMS 19 Oct 2017 22:46 #321340

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Markz wrote on 17 Oct 2017 03:27:
The "Three-Second Rule” (tool #3)

If we see something inappropriate, we can implement the "three-second rule." Doing so involves three steps: alert, avert, and affirm. The first step is to realize that we're seeing something inappropriate. That's the "alert" stage, and it may take a second or two. The second step is to close our eyes or look away. That's the "avert" stage. These two steps should take place within [about] three seconds. The third step is to give yourself a mental "pat on the back" thinking something like, "I saw that by mistake, and I quickly looked away. I'm still clean and, G-d willing, I'm going to build on that, one day at a time." That's the "affirm" stage.

when I sent through the first 90  days this was the most important rule of focus, and prayer, the next 90 days was easier, and now I just know that when I least expect it, I will battle again, but I have learn some of the things that tempt me, i go prepare when I know a battle is ahead of me, I keep prayer with me for the unexpected, I am know that Torah study can cause my soul to ascend, and at times for days I can be free of temptations.
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