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New member 20 Nov 2022 17:56 #388011

  • YakovW
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I am nee here,, sstruggling like crazy

Please help

Re: New member 20 Nov 2022 18:00 #388012

  • jackthejew
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Welcome! You CAN break free BE"H.
Take a look around the forums and check out the F2F program.
Please feel free to email me
Much Hatzlacha!
Feel free to reach out! jackthejewgye@gmail.com I'll do my best to try and listen! 
There are tips, tools, and techniques, but there are no shortcuts.
Hard work can grow us to any height.
Lack of work can sink us to any depth.
And you are worth the work because Hashem made you great and you still are.

Re: New member 20 Nov 2022 18:03 #388013

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Welcome, Would you like to share more details. Also hears a hug, struggling can be really hard.
Be a part of my 90 day journey! -Destination -90 days, A Human beings journey. Every post and suggestion response and chizzuk is appreciated.

I love connecting, supporting and sharing. To private message me, my email is Hashemsboy@gmail.com Feel free to say hello and #Shareyourstory.#NOJUDGMENTZONE!

Re: New member 20 Nov 2022 19:14 #388016

  • yakov57
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Ty very much 

Re: New member 20 Nov 2022 19:17 #388017

  • DavidT
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YakovW wrote on 20 Nov 2022 17:56:

I am nee here,, sstruggling like crazy

Please help

Welcome to GYE!
The first step is to celebrate the fact that you posted on GYE and you're reaching out for help. This in itself is a big part of recovery. Many people don't realize that they have a problem and even those who do, don't always reach out to be helped. 
I would suggest checking out guardyoureyes.com/gyehandbook and our amazing F2F program... 

One very important point is that anyone who has tried to quit watching and acting out before knows that it is a lot harder to do alone. This is because porn etc feeds off of our isolation and makes it harder and harder to get help. Even though it’s hard, involving important people in our journey to recovery is a HUGE step in recovery. Remember, the addiction is a prison built on secrets, lies, shame, and isolation. Every time you open up to someone in honesty and love you are breaking down another chunk of those walls. Keep at it until you are free and there is nothing but a pile of rubble behind you.

We're looking forward to hearing more from you and to join along in your great successes ahead! 
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
feel free to reach out @  ahavayirah@gmail.com

Re: New member 20 Nov 2022 19:40 #388018

  • Captain
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Please check out these great free resources:ebook- The Battle of the Generation
Audio series- The Fight
They're very good to start with.
See below in my signature for the links.
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
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