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Re: GETTING MARRIED, YIKES!!!!!!! WORRIED SICK 27 Nov 2017 14:10 #322992

Hey, guys!

I can't believe it myself, but here I am on the wall of Honor, successful completion of the 90 day challenge!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

B"H! It was only with the Koach of The One Above! Thank You Hashem! And I Daven Al t'veinu l'yidey nisoyon, with a new reinforced meaning.

There is one issue I wanted to ask the oilem here.....

Has anyone (single guys) experienced any kind of pain/discomfort in the testicles as a result of blue balls?

I went to the doctor to get it checked out. So far he's not sure what's causing it. Had an ultrasound done and still nothing certain, went to another doc to rule out hernia..... 

I just hope it's not punishment.  Either way I accept the pain with love, knowing that Hashem wants to let me let me off hook easily with this minor pain/discomfort instead of in the world to come!

Re: GETTING MARRIED, YIKES!!!!!!! WORRIED SICK 27 Nov 2017 17:55 #322997

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Re: GETTING MARRIED, YIKES!!!!!!! WORRIED SICK 27 Nov 2017 20:50 #323004

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Mazel tov! Wishing you to be the husband and father God intended for you to be. Don't underestimate lust or any kind of addiction. It's cunning, baffling and powerful. There are those who say they probably could have stopped early on on their own strength. They didn't and it eventually became an addiction. For me I think I was born an addict. Maybe if I knew that before I started I could have not started.  I can very much relate one of your posts., I used to play the am an addict or not game with alcohol. Allowing myself to drink for years and always trying to set limits so I would know I wasn't an alcoholic. It was a miserable experience. Proceed with caution and live like a man.
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Re: GETTING MARRIED, YIKES!!!!!!! WORRIED SICK 28 Nov 2017 02:38 #323022

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Re: GETTING MARRIED, YIKES!!!!!!! WORRIED SICK 28 Nov 2017 18:04 #323063

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Mazel Tov!

I have spoken with a few GYE chassanim in the past. If you'd like, you can send me a message, and I'd be happy to speak with you as well.
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