No idea. I also need more social connections.

I think most of us suffer from too little friends or connections. I know i need more, but where do i start?....

Anyway, its very hard for me to be so bored, i go nuts. I would buy something to read or learn for a few hours, or do exercise. I cant just sit home and do nothing.

Staying home watching the kid/kids so the wife can get a good nap is great way to show you love her! I'm sure it meant a lot to her to have you being noseh be'ol with her. It's also part of your relationship together and coming closer. No need to feel was a waisted morning home.

Day 4# Wednesday כ' אב
B"H VERY GOOD

Day 5# Thursday כ''א אב
B"H  GOOD

I B’’H had a very good day today with my wife and family

Interestingly, guarding my eyes was better yesterday,

I think the reason is, when its hard I have to be mindful, but when I’m in a good frame of mind, I don’t think about it, and not aware to be mindful.

Anyways never a good idea to obsess about it, you looked, didn’t look, what did you see, was it bad. Who cares it’s not so major, there is nothing there, I just have to try not to scratch when it itches, and notice the itch before I scratch.

Wishing You All A Happy Fun Weekend

Day 6# Friday כ''ב אב
B"H  VERY GOOD

Day 7#   כ''ג אב שבת קודש
B"H  VERY GOOD
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I wanna do another week of guarding my eyes

Day 1# Sunday כ''ד אב
B"H VERY GOOD

Day 2# Monday כ''ה אב
B"H VERY GOOD

Day 3# Tuesday כ''ו אב
B"H VERY GOOD

@No Mask

I would have learned, read, exercised, done something creative etc,

Day 4# Wednesday כ''ז אב
B"H VERY GOOD

How are you doing?

YeshivaGuy wrote on 29 Aug 2022 05:31:

Thanks for asking and taking interest

I'm doing ok, I was very busy the last few days, and had a lot to do, so i didn't get on much on GYE,
also kids came home from camp, and I don't want to be on computer a lot.

And i also try to do some עשה טוב and not only focus on סור מרע so when i have free time I'm trying to do something productive, or learn a little, to fill my head with other things instead of logging on  [but I got to see if this is a good idea].

All the best 

I was sitting in Bais Hamedrash and I saw flies coming to the food there, and I was wondering since they keep the place clean, no flies, there is still food 24/7 but fresh food and clean, and the flies don’t come, so I was wondering why flies like more dirty and spoiled food. Thought

Suddenly I started thinking am I not the same, I like to look and….. The dirtiest women and the most dirty places on them, some regal modest well dressed women, not that interesting as this dirty not dressed, and the most dirty places on them are the most attractive to us.

So I guess the flies look at us the same way we look at them