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Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 17 Aug 2022 04:01 #384779

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Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 17 Aug 2022 20:50 #384818

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HI

Today was a hard day, I took off from work a few days, and I wanted to spend them with my wife, one morning was nice, next day was busy with a simcha in the family, and today she said she is tired and went into bed for the whole morning, and I babysat the baby, until the kids came home from day camp.

I was very lonely, and could have been very upset, that this how my day off looks like., but I was just open to my feelings, and didn’t try to suppress it, and lived with it.

And worked not to have any resentment against my wife,

In the past such a day was very dangerous.

I know I need to connect more with people and friends, and not to expect all my need for connection from my wife.

P.S. what would you have done you have nothing to do [I already learned a blat gemarah] how would you connect with others.

Thank you

Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 17 Aug 2022 20:57 #384819

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No idea. I also need more social connections.

Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 17 Aug 2022 21:27 #384824

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I think most of us suffer from too little friends or connections. I know i need more, but where do i start?....

Anyway, its very hard for me to be so bored, i go nuts. I would buy something to read or learn for a few hours, or do exercise. I cant just sit home and do nothing.

Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 18 Aug 2022 01:35 #384844

Staying home watching the kid/kids so the wife can get a good nap is great way to show you love her! I'm sure it meant a lot to her to have you being noseh be'ol with her. It's also part of your relationship together and coming closer. No need to feel was a waisted morning home.

Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 18 Aug 2022 16:22 #384876

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Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 19 Aug 2022 04:27 #384910

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Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 19 Aug 2022 04:45 #384911

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I B’’H had a very good day today with my wife and family

Interestingly, guarding my eyes was better yesterday,

I think the reason is, when its hard I have to be mindful, but when I’m in a good frame of mind, I don’t think about it, and not aware to be mindful.

Anyways never a good idea to obsess about it, you looked, didn’t look, what did you see, was it bad. Who cares it’s not so major, there is nothing there, I just have to try not to scratch when it itches, and notice the itch before I scratch.

Wishing You All A Happy Fun Weekend

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Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 22 Aug 2022 05:06 #385015

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I wanna do another week of guarding my eyes

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Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 23 Aug 2022 05:30 #385054

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Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 24 Aug 2022 04:34 #385101

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Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 24 Aug 2022 21:29 #385133

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@No Mask

I would have learned, read, exercised, done something creative etc,

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Re: TAKING OFF MY MASK 29 Aug 2022 05:31 #385243

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