I actually don’t know if he meant anything specific. That wasn’t his point

what was his point?
Trouble shared what any of us brothers would have said, it’s the simple truth
whats that mean ?sorry so dense.

great news for all of us, there is a great phone hotline for shimiras eynayim , lots of chizuk in this battle from big  Talmidei Chachamim , hope you all enjoy
718-450-9990

Thank you. Mitzva l'farsem!

i think people dont say thank you because it means i owe you one and nobody likes to owe  anyone ,what do you think?

i think ppl may not think so much and they just scan a post and yaalah, chabibi.

higher wrote on 20 Dec 2019 18:18:

I think people thank when they like and appreciate; they don't when they don't. Some move on either way. There have been over 25 thank yous today BH.

There is a practical reason people might not thank,  (aside from trouble's point) on the app if you go to the recent post page  and click thank you there,  it takes you to that thread which is a pain in the neck...

i-man wrote on 22 Dec 2019 01:25:

I don't know about the app, but on mobile, you can hard click on the thank you (like I just did to your post) and still remain on the same page you were before. Another page opens but it doesn't disturb your browsin'.

i-man wrote on 22 Dec 2019 01:25:

i know what you mean ,the same thing happens to me when im at a pc  but i thank anyway , you gotta do what you gotta do.a freilichin Chanuka iman!

just curious, we  are told here that  when our wives arent interested we turn our wives into kosher toilets /masterbating toys,does it also work the other way around,if im tired and sleepy and i  am not in the mood , but my wife wants affection/pleasure but no penetration,did she turn me into her kosher pleasure toy/v**rator?
if its considered rape if i use her when shes not in the mood, is it considered that she molested me when she uses me when  im not in the mood?

sleepy wrote on 29 Dec 2019 05:21:

Did you ever listen to this series? It's an amazing group of lectures that gives great clarity on the question you asked and more topics around it...  The Chosson Shmooze You WISH You Had, but Never Got!

DavidT wrote on 29 Dec 2019 16:20:

i have listened to many of those  shiurim and have benefitted tremendously , lets get him on this forum, we would have alot to learn from him  , i dont remember coming accross an answer that dealt with my question, would you mind being more specific , i dont have patience to look for a needle in a haystack right now ,maybe those people who formulated the kosher masterbating tool slang or quote it very often have thoughts on the matter

sleepy wrote on 29 Dec 2019 05:21:

is that called manupilating me?

Markz wrote on 29 Nov 2019 00:19:

i happened to ask him , and from what i recall , it was his point