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Re: I'm stuck and scared 09 May 2019 23:53 #341055

  • cordnoy
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Nate, you are now in good hands. I'm not sure what brought the Bear outta his hibernation, but you lucked out. Pm him and stay in touch; he's da best! I hope I wasn't too strong in some of my questions, but my job is done here; I will be recusin' myself.

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Re: I'm stuck and scared 10 May 2019 00:27 #341057

  • ColinColin
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It could be lust, and the thrill of an illicit encounter.

But perhaps being on the road makes you lonely/depressed, and you are filling that emptiness with these encounters?

I suggest if you were previously addicted to substances, then whatever caused that could now cause this wish for sex.
It has simply found an alternative outlet.

​Perhaps there is something unfulfilled in your life?
A need for some creatvive pursuit which has been stiffled by work, marriage, parenthood and time ont he road?

If you can know for sure, then you can put a plan together.

And in the meantime, and for after, if you feel a need for lust.....divert it.
Constructively do something else...from exercise to reading, from studying to watching a film.
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